Gender: Female Member Since: November 10, 2017 Answers: 1 Last Update: October 15, 2018 Visitors: 339
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I guess what I’m trying to say is I’ll be 20 in 2 months and I’m tired of looking like I’m 15. I’ve been told I look 15 by so many people and I think it might be the reason why I don’t attract guys my age. Also because I just have low self-esteem, being called ugly my whole life kind of just made me stop trying. However, now that I’m getting over I actually want to try with my appearance so any tips? Also if you have tips on how to talk to guys that would be nice too. Again being called ugly my whole life made me not even bother with guys I’d admire from afar but I developed anxiety when talking to guys because in high school guys would constantly call me ugly for no reason so I stopped bothering. But I feel like I can’t let what happened in high school control my life forever you know? (link)
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I know EXACTLY how you feel. I was called ugly all up until I turned... about... eighteen. Now I just think they say it behind my back, aha. I'm 21, but some people say I look 14, others say I look 18. But the thing is, be HAPPY ABOUT IT! Because when you're 40 years old, you're going to be living in an abundance of PURE GRATITUDE, since when you're older, you are GOING TO WANT TO LOOK YOUNGER! That's why I'm happy about how young I look when I'm almost 22.
and you know, if you improve your inner beauty and your confidence, you'll actually appear more beautiful on the outside because those two will radiate from within. That's the only reason I truly think I'm called beautiful now, because people can see how strong my inner beauty and confidence is.
I'm also working on improving my body to make myself more attractive. You should try doing that too! Because frankly, there's nothing you can change about your facial appearance except your eyebrows, eyelashes and the whiteness of your teeth. Oh, and the flawlessness and clearness of your skin.
:)
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