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Q: u need to update ur answers =)
yes i know i need to update lol thanks for reminding me!

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Q: Ive been friends with this girl since preschool. ive also been friends with this other girl since kindergarden. now that were in juinor high..the girl ive been friends with since kindergarden is popular. im still kinda of friends with her tho. and my other friend is also friends with her. whenever i hang around both friends at the same time..my older friend acts like shes higher or cooler then me. but when its just us, she acts like we have no other friends but eachother. i cant tell her what shes doing because i think she already knows it. what shoud i doooo
Even though you think she already knows what she is doing you have to sit her down alone and tell her what is happening and maybe remind her what she is doing and how you are feeling about this. She may get mad at you and not talk to you for a couple of days but sooner or later she will realize that she was being mean and what she was doing was wrong. good luck

Q: So i am in love with this guy. Im afraid to tell him anything cause I dont wanna get rejected. But in 2 years well be in different high schools and i wont see him again. What should i do?
Woahh 2 years babe? you still have a while to react.. don't think about the future, think about whats going on right now. First, don't be afraid of being rejected, ask him how he feels about you and him being together and if he doesn't see anything than maybe its better off being really close friends and if he does see something than you are ONE LUCKY GIRL!


Q: ok first i just wanted to say your advice is really good! ok i was going out with this guy and then about 4 months later he dumped me for some other chick. this girl, shes a bitch. she hates me for no reason. and i really like this guy still. i mean, after 4 months i fell head over heals with hime. he doesnt know how much he still means to me. how can i get him to realize how much i like him with out actually telling him? i really need to hurry before i go crazy
well thanks, i guess i just like helping out people with their problems =) well now with your adivce.. this guy seems very important to you and if this girl hates you for no reason you have to go and talk to her about it, just ask her why the hell she hates you and if she doesn't have an answer well then be like well you can't hate me then.. there really isn't anything you can do about him going out with her really just don't let it bother you or anything because she will feel powerful compliment only him with her and don't tell him that it bothers you because then he will think you are weird and you will be in an awkward position

Q: Okay so I've liked this guy since I was in 1st grade. My parents were all cool about it cause they didnt think i was serious when i said I liked him. Well now Im in junior high and I still am completely in love. The problem is im not sure if he likes me. I dont want to ask him, because I dont want him to say no. But i am soo nerveous about saying anything to him. I dont talk to boys that much. I mainly talk online. What should i do?
well i have to put it to you, your first problem is that you don't talk to boys that much, or in person. Find some guy friends that you really enjoy hanging out with and just try talking to them. that will be like your practice. then start talking to your super crush and maybe you guys will become friends and who knows? maybe you'll even have some things in common and have a connection! good luck!

Q: I am a 7th grade girl. I have been friends with this one girl ever since 1st grade. We always talked about how much we hate the popular girls in our class. Now she started hanging out with them and is totally ignoring me. The only time she acts like herself is when I'm alone with her.What should i do?
--Confused
yes, one of the usual junior high problems around this time. since ive been through it many times i kind of know how to handle it. your friend just wants to be known as someone good, and be popular just to get boys or whatever. this is what happened with my friend around me together they would be all mean to me and when she was alone she is the nicest person in the world, sit her down and tell her that something is bothering you about this, don't be afraid to throw it all out there and if she gets mad at you its okay, she will realize what she is doing wrong, and maybe after all the popular girls are nice, you never know! so either talk to her or just try hanging out with them and taggin along for a little bit, but don't be a bitch about it. tell me how everything goes!


Q: ok this guy broke up with me and i was sooooo sad. its kind of mean, but how can i get him to feel bad for me or make him jealous? idk if it makes sense but i want him to be sad that he dumped me.. and jealous. thanks bye!
well there's not a lot that you can really do about that but i'll do the best that i can. whenever you are around that guy try like flirting and stuff with another guy, maybe one of his good friends and try to make him jealous, if he likes you then he will come back for you, but if you don't want to be all rude about it just sit him down and say a few words with him and let him know that you still have feelings for him and maybe you can just hang out together as really good friends. Good luck! tell me how everything goes on AIM -> pr0blemlherel

Q: hey carly soo glad you got this site! ill ask a question when i get one!
haha thanks yeah i need some people to ask me some questions, kinda empty

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