Member Since: May 15, 2014
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Last Update: May 15, 2014
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I am 12 yr old girl and want to no wen I should be allowed to do things. First I'm responsible , get good grades, and reasonable. I
Makeup: I have acne so I want to conceal and start putting some on in a yr or two. My mom thinks 15/16
Babysitting / tutu ring: I wanna do it now to prove I'm responsible but my mom thinks 13
Dating: I think dances should be ok in high school and to start real dates jr yr with approval of the boy . Mom thinks 17.
Alone: I want to go shopping and movies with a friend or by myself. With friends I think now and I'll call my mom every hour. Alone I think high school. Mom thinks 15
Shaving legs : I think now . Don't wanna ask mim.
Am I being unreasonable? Is she? What is a good middle ground for a good girl like me? Can u help me convince to that middle ground? Thx (link)
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Well I do have to say your parents are pretty strict. I was aloud to wear makeup at any age, but I wasn\'t aloud to over do it. Around your age I could hangout with my friends alone to. I had a boyfriend in 7th grade. Like people have said your parents are doing this, because they love you, I would sit down with your parents and talk to them about this situation. I would suggest asking them how you can gain their trust and responsibility. Hopefully then your parents can help set ground rules. Most likely if everything goes well the can trust you with the little things until they know they can trust you with the big things. I hope this helps.
BTW Im 15 and I want a permit to drive. So im in a situation of my parents being able to give me extreme responsibility so hang in their. Soon you will be asking to drive to.
:)
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