Member Since: May 15, 2006
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This girl who's my best friend recently broke up with her bf. I found out a few days later from another friend that she really likes me(i'm a guy btw). Well, I like her too, but I don't think I like her as much as she likes me. Now, her bf is kinda...how can I say this-madly crazy over her, and when they broke up he started doing some crazy things, like cutting. Well, she decided to get back together with him out of pity, but she admits that she doesn't love him like she used too, and she would much rather be with me. But, I'm really not that into her enough to be in a serious relationship. However, I really don't want to see my friend with her bf 'cause I don't think he's really the best guy for her, so I decided to take a chance and pretend to like her as much as she likes me. This totally complicates things even more, i know, but it was the only thing i could think of to keep her away from him. Now she doesn't know what to do, and I don't know what to do. I know this is just typical high-school drama for most of you, but I(we) really need your feedback on this. (link)
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It's hard for girls to know what they want. Especially when it comes down to guys. Usually they know what they want, but they can't go with what they want because they are scared of hurting the other person. Personallym, I don't think you like this girl. There is a difference between caring for someone and "liking" someone. Caring for someone could be a "sibling" kinda thing... and seeing that she's your best friend I can say that you don't want her to go out with that guy because u really don't think that guy is a good guy. THat happened to one of my friends. Where she did not like her best friend but she did not want him to be with his girlfriend since it separated their friendship. Guys are usually more drawn to their gfs so he spent less time with her. However, she does not like him in that way. I think you know what the answer is... if you're a true friend regardless of what ur friend's choice is on bfs.. you would support her. If you really like her.. then there's no need for the word to "pretend to like her" because it should come naturally. FIrst you need to decide if you really want to be with her. If you truly like her... not because she likes you a lot... but because you like HER.
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