Hi, call me Samantha, I truly enjoy giving out advice because I went though a lot, though my life and it was hard, and I would like to give any advice possible. If you have any questions I will gladly suport you with any advice possible.
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Location: Winnipeg, MB, Canada
Member Since: April 23, 2006
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Alright so me and my best guy friend, we are close. Close as in he tells me mostly everything. He's such a cool guy and I love him to death. [I'm not sure if I have feelings for him, I'm sure I don't] Well, people at school always tell me that he likes me, but I usually don't believe it. But lately he has been acting strange around me. Yesterday night we had a party thing, and I asked him if he wanted to dance[It wasn't even a slow song, and I wasn't trying to make a move or anything.] And he goes, and I quote, "No. I mean do you know how akward that would be later? I mean we are in the same math class." Yes we are in the same math class, and that seems to be the number one problem. If I ever ask him something in a friendly way [Like do you wanna dance?] he always uses the excuse that we are in the same math class as a way not to do it. But he always dances with my other friends and has a good time. But refuses me. I don't understand what's going on with him. Does he have feeligns for me and is trying to hide them? Or does he just not like me at all? (link)
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Awe, Hun, most guys are impossible to figure out. Don't take it out on yourself and think that he doesn't like you, because if he didn't then he wouldn't be your friend, would he? Just relax a bit, there are two possible reasons why he said 'no' for you two to dance. First, he may have thought about your friend relationship first, maybe he decided your friend relationship was most important and doesn't want to ruin it even though you asked for a friendly dance. Another possibility as I see it is he is worried that you may come into his work at school, like you said he always used the excuse 'we are in the same math class', well, maybe he is worried that your relationship might disturb his school work first. But by the way I see it, just let him settle, or talk to him and confront him about his feelings towards you, and I know that is not the most easy thing to do, but you never know what might happen. Best of wishes.
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I'm honestly a smart girl but I'm lazy & hate working. This has drastically affected my grades in school. My parents expect great grades from me (which I haven't had throughout highschool). I'm a junior and grades really matter. I dread report card days because it's the same routine - me crying while my mom screams & punishes me. It is my fault & I know that. How do I start stepping it up and show my mom that this time will be different? I need ways to pull my grades up big time and change my lazy ways. (link)
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Try to get motivated, even if it takes time. Find a subject in school you slightly enjoy and go for it, then find look at other subjects and study hard and prove to your mom you are better then that. Show that you are indeed more mature then she expected! show her up! and you seem like a smart and charming young woman, you can get those grades up, just takes a little effort. Good luck! and best of wishes.
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I'm in this huge problem right now and I honestly don't know what to do. I'm 14 years old and female. I met this guy and I really do like him, but he's pushing me to have sex. What should I do? he makes me happy, but it's just something that I don't think I'm ready for just yet. I need help. (link)
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Dear Confused,
First let me say that you are very smart for recognizing you are not ready to have a physical relationship at you age! that great. As for your male friend, I suggest you talk to him, tell you how you feel on the subject. If he continues to harass you for you to have sex with him, move on, because honestly.... if he cannot understand that your to young, then it's just not possible. I also suggest that you talk to someone about it, like a trustworthy friend at your school, just in case he gets physical about it. Best wishes, and good luck!
Sincerely yours,
Samantha
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