Member Since: October 12, 2014
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Last Update: October 12, 2014
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Hi, so recently (yesterday) I found out that my best friends hated me. I just changed schools and my friend (who doesn't hate me) told me that they formed a group and started talking bad about me calling me a slut (even though I've never hooked up with anyone and I haven't had my first kiss but ok) and the main point that I'm annoying. And it really, really hurt because WE WERE BEST FRIENDS. Like I was prepared to cry, I'm pretty sure that my eyes welled up with tears. Anyways, does anybody have a suggestion for me to how to stop being annoying because everybody, I mean pretty much everybody, thinks that I can be annoying sometimes and I really try to not be because annoying people piss me off. And I'm not physically annoying, like I poke people and shit but like how can I saw things that aren't so annoying? (link)
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I understand how you feel. When I was younger I dealt with many of the same issues that you are dealing with right now. I assume that you don't mean to be annoying to other people. It is just how you tend to come off when you are acting yourself around them. My first suggestion is to find those people who you really fit in with and who appreciate you for the way you are. If you truly care about other people, then you will find someone who needs your specific ways of conversing, guidance, and love. However, if you find it hard to find others who appreciate who you are then you can still find ways to avoid silly drama from others. **Identify the issue**. Find out exactly why others are annoyed with you. If the reason is something that you believe that you need to change then work on changing it. If their reason is petty, then do not worry about them at all and just move on. You will find others that appreciate you and want to be around you.
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