Member Since: July 24, 2005
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Last Update: July 24, 2005
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Ok i've bin out with this boy 12 times I really love him and he told me that he wanted kids with me and that he loves me but recently his ex got jealous i bbroke up with him because me and his ex had an argument this caursed all my other mates to fall out with me now he's going back out with his other ex and has recently started being nasty to me I still really love him and can't stop thinking about him also i'm going out with someone else and he's threatened to beat them up if they don't dump me he thinks he can have as many people as he likes but just won't get off my case when I try so the question I want to ask is if you were me what would you do about this boy??? thankyou if you help i'll rate you high if not I won't rate you at all (link)
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well, this is obviously a big problem....and there are only a few rational ways to solve this. First, decide if you really, really like this guy. Is it worth all the trouble he is causing. I mean....if he really loved you...would he threaten to beat someone up that you really like and be nasty to you! Dont just think because you have been with him for so long that he is the guy for you...you have to really think about what he is putting you through! Next, call him or write him to see if he wants to get together with you for a meal...like lunch or something casual, and just say that you feel you two should just talk. Tell him how you feel, and explain the tension between yourself and his ex.....maybe he will understand. The truth of the matter is....a guy who truley loves you does not want to see you hurt...but give him a chance....maybe you 2 are just better off as friends. I hope all goes well!
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