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I+am+17+years+old+i+am+a+senior+in+high+school.+I+love+helping+people+and+im+going+to+college+for+journalism.+
Gender: Female
Location: Nashville%2Btennessee
Occupation: Waitress%2Band%2Bcook
Age: 17
Member Since: November 27, 2008
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this is my situation,

im 16 years old, 4 weeks pregnant i know i have options and i have been thinking about them a lot.

adoption is just out of the question if i did that then one of my family members would adopt my child and i wouldn't be able to deal with that. So im not putting my child up for adoption.

i have always told myself that i was against abortion not just because i think of it as killing a baby but because it can cause physical and emotional harm to you also.

if i kept the baby i know i would have sooo many people behind me my mom has 4 sisters and all of them including her had there first baby at 17 so i know they would understand i know they would all help me, but im sooo scared. Im a Jr this year and the baby wouldnt be born till late july early augest so thats summer i mean .. i want to go back to school after i have the baby i would do that.. but i dont know.. i mean im not sure the father will stick around my best friend is his sister i know she would help me but i dont know what to do... i really dont want to be someones mother right now and i know its my boyfriends and mine fault that this happened but .. HELP!



what would you do in my situation, tell me why and what you think I should do!... please help any advice will help me (link)
Well if you have family and friends that are willing to help you thats a very good thing. God gave you that baby for a reason we will probably never know that reason but he obviously wants that baby in this world. And as for the father if he dont stick around you will always have your family. Good luck!




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