My name's Chelsea, I'm 14...I love music, but not country, rap, or r&b, so basically just all kinds of rock...my favorite bands are Matchbox Twenty, Aerosmith, and My Chemical Romance. I can probably give advice on just about anything, i've been through some weird times in my life, and if i can help, i will.
Website: xanga
E-mail: chelsea794613@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Jamestown, New York
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: chelsangeline763
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ehh...i've tried to clear up everything with everyone i've hated...yeah but that doesnt work they're still people who hate me, you know how that is, and the only thing people use against me is my favorite singer, or the fact that i only have a few friends, it's ticking me off i'm so sick of everything relating back to my favorite singer (you probably know whos writing this but i dont care) (link)
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Listen, I know how it is to try and clear things up with everyone, and I found that the ones who won't accept your forgiveness are the one's not worth keeping. If someone is going to say harsh words about something as simple or oppinionated as your favorite singer, then you have to wonder how much they can really be there for you. Always remember what someone says when they're angry, because that's when the truth comes out. In this case, if this person is judging you because of how many friends you have, then they have their priorities messed up. Friends are measured in quality not quantity. You can have 100 friends, but not one who is a true friend, so that makes all one hundred friends worthless, but you can have one friend who you can tell anything to, and that is all it takes to make all the difference in the world. If you want to know what i would do, forget about the people who find such small things to critisize, and stick with the ones who can listen to you and offer you a shoulder to cry on...because that's what really matters.
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ok, my girlfriend's dad died the other day (they were on vacation in Qubec with her, her dad, her mom, & 2 friends) & so she was very upset & so she broke up with me. I understood & said it was ok. & so I bought her a card (witch I'm gonna send once I get her address from her friend) & I'm afraid to call her & everything cos I don't want to talk about it & that'd be the only thing we'd talk about.
but what I'm asking is if I should wait for her to get over it all & maby go back with her, or if I should just move on?
more about our realationship, she lives about 45 mins. away & I haven't been able to see her much & I haven't been the best boyfriend since I'm going through some really hard times right now, but I try
I'm 14/M & shes 14/F
thanks (link)
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Listen, if you're afraid to offer your shoulder for her to cry on after something as traumatic as a parent's death at the age of 14, maybe you shouldn't be with her in the first place. If you understand how it is to be going through things right now, and not being the best boyfriend, maybe you should try to understand that the way that you COULD be a great boyfriend, or even friend, would be to offer her some of your time, because even though you may not want to talk about it, she does, and that would show how much you care.
Hope i could be of some assistance,
Chelsea
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