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Member Since: July 2, 2012
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Last Update: August 19, 2012
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My boyfriend always calls me very sweet things like beautiful and gorgeous. He sometimes even says im hot and sexy but more in a joking way. I am just wondering about some ideas of things to say back to him. I need some advice on how to respond to those things and what to say back. (link)
You can calm him whatever you want :) some guys like cute names, others dont so it depends on your bf.. My bf likes it a lot so i say many things like: baby, honey, sweetheart, hot, se handsome
you will notice soon enough if he likes the names or not


So me and my boyfriend had sex, and we used a condom but I'm 4 days late on my period, I think there is a chance I could be pregnant but I'm not sure yet! Sure I be worried or I'm I just over thinking this? (link)
I think you should wait a little longer, my period is not always on the same time either.. When it still takes too long you should do a test to be sure


Hi, I'm an 18 year-old female, fresh out of high school, and I've never dated anyone. Ever. Never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, never been on a date even. I've been asked to a couple dances, but that's about the extent of it. And that's sort of on purpose. See, I never wanted to date anyone, firstly because most of the guys at the schools I have gone to have been complete jerks, but mostly because I'm very serious about relationships. Most middle school relationships last about a month max. Plus at the time I wanted to focus on having fun with school and friends, and sports. High school relationships have a bit more potential than middle school ones of course, but they're so drama-filled, time consuming, and just plain stressful. Plus, there's a slim chance they'll actually succeed after high school. So, I made the decision not to date anyone until college, and that was probably one of the smartest decisions I've ever made. I could just focus on growing up, focus on MY issues, and I was free to do what I wanted, when I wanted with my friends (with my parents' permission, of course, haha).

Now that I'll be in college, I'm allowing myself to date. But... I'm EXTREMELY inexperienced. So I know basically nothing about relationships. The main problem is, I'm a Christian, so I really want to save myself, my virginity, until marriage. It's just... something that I've had a long time to ponder and pray about, and it just feels like something God wants me to do. And it's something I want too, for me and my future husband. But nowadays, ESPECIALLY nowadays, that's not an easy task. We're bombarded with sex on TV, in movies and media, it's just everywhere! Even a lot of my own friends are no longer virgins. And the majority of sex is featured with non-married couples. I know it's okay to go without sex in high school, (although it's becoming increasingly uncommon), but is it the same with adult relationships? I mean, premarital sex has just become a common thing.

Basically, I just want to know if I'll be able to go out into the relationship world and not be a laughing stock who'll end up dying alone (after all, that is a huge fear of mine). >>; I mean, sex seems to be this regular activity for couples, and I don't want to be laughed at by a boyfriend when he goes to take off my pants and I tell him no. I'm prepared for that, but I want to know if it's possible nowadays to even have a successful relationship without sex. Is it possible? Do couples HAVE to have sex? Thank you for your time. :] (link)
Hi :) don't worry about it, you don't have to have sex when you don't want it yet, or in your case before marriage. I'm almost 18 myself and have a bf for 8 months but we haven't done it either (i just finished high school) so its not weird when you are different from other girls. If its the right guy he will accept it if you say no when he wants it. Otherwise you should start thinking if he really is the guy that you want to go out with..
Hope this helps a bit, if you want to talk just message me on my profile ;)
~Carmen


Hi my name is gijs I live in the netherlands and I'm 13 years old
Iv had this crush on this girl mirte for a year now and I finaly what to man up and ask her out but I don't know how and I'm to scared to do it help me pleasee

Gijs (link)
Dont worry^^ it always seems scary to go to the person you love because you think they will turn you down and hate you.. I had the same thing with my boyfriend ;) i didnt have the courage but he took 20 minutes to get himself admit it while i was asleep and kissed me even though he didnt know i liked him back... I know that fear, but if you really like her then just do it:) you will regret it if you ignore your feelings and dont try it, if she's a true friend she wouldnt act weird or stop being nice to you so just give it a shot^^


Hey everyone! How do you make an upside down question mark? Like this one

http://media.photobucket.com/image/upside%20down/PepperCat564/upsidedownquestionmark.png?o=8&sortby=sevendaysview

but in just regular text on the computer if you know what I mean? Also can you tell me what does an upsidedown question mark mean? (link)
There is a way to make it without changing your computer or language ^^ i have my keyboard language on US and i can make one.. So you just press: ctrl+alt+question mark
I hope that it works for you too (btw i use windows 7 by microsoft so maybe it wont work if you use apple or linux)




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