Hey everyone my name is Brittany L. Some of you may kno me and some may not...but I do help in the time of need. I do listen and I do give the best answer you can think of. I most likely will always help you....and if I only helped juss a little tell me and I will tell you more cause I am not happy till you are happy! So juss ask me anything and I will listen and give you the best answer. If yu have nothin nice to say about me juss dont say it cause I aint here to hear stuff about me I am here to help people that need me! So if yu have anything nasty to say about me tell me to my face. If yu dont like me, but still need advice...I will still listenin! I don't care who yu are I help in anyway I can!
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Gender: Female
Location: MN
Occupation: education
Age: 14
AIM: BLovro10
Member Since: November 23, 2004
Answers: 20
Last Update: February 2, 2005
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k well im going out with this girl and i want to go out with her but i dont and i just kinda wanna be single but i still wanna go out with her so what do i do? help me bryn!! (link)
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Let her down easy. Juss tell her yu need time to urself for awhile. Say..there is always a future and she will be in it. Yu cant go against ur feelings. If yu feel yu need time to urself or feel like yu juss want to be single...than tell her.
Hope I helped.
*Bryn*
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what do you do when your so in love with someone but nothing is going right anymore? ive been with this guy off and one for like 7 or 8 months! ive fallen so deep in love! after we started school things got messed up and we broke up the first time but always had a thing! than we started going out again awhile later! ive been so depressed lately because it doesnt seem like he cares but i do think he wants me! i cry myself to sleep almost everynite and i just dont know? how do you let go? should i break up with him or keep tryin? (link)
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If a guy makes yu sad...than whats the point of staying with someone like that when someone out there could always put a smile on ur face? I kno it must be hard to think about letting go...but maybe it is time yu do and realize who and what else is out there in life.
I hope I helped
*Bryn*
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ok a couple of my friends wanna go anarexic ( dont kno how to spell it ) and they are NOT fat but they still think they are how do i get them to stop what they are doin? (link)
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Anorexia is a bad thing that mostly girls/women do to their bodies....it is a bad thing but it is there mind speaking to them...they look in the mirror and they see only what THEY want to see...anorexia as you probably know can damage the body bad...it is a eating disorder that people cant get rid of on their own...you must talk to an adult that you trust...and if you dont....than if something bad happens to them....you will feel guilt...so if you go to an adult you trust...they will get your friends some help cause maybe just maybe your saving someones life!
Hope I helped!
*Bryn*
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What do I say to him? I like him but I dont know if he likes me.. We went out before but he dumped me because of this girl~ she said that I was using him when I wasnt! Which I pissed about bout ok back to the story... I dont really know what to do!?!?
Please help me!
Thanks.. (link)
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Talk to him....talk to her...tell him the truth..and tell her to juss stop sayin stuff....the only thing that i can think of why she did that is because she wanted to compete against yu and was jealous that yu had him and not her....next time something like that happens...yu must talk to them!
Hope I helped
*Bryn*
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hey i am in 7th grade and i am very confused! i dont know were to start buti guess i will start at my guys problems! i have been talking to one of my ex boyfriends a lot and i am starting to like him A LOT!!! but the thing is i have a boyfriend and i like him A LOT as well!! and i am just very confused!! i wont to go out with that kid again but i want to stay with the person i am going out with!! and i dont know wat to do!! CAN U PLEASE HELP ME?!?!?!?!?!? sincerly,
confused! (link)
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I have been in that kinda mess before...when i was it took me awhile to realize one thing.....maybe the guy i was fallin for maybe it was juss feelings for a great friend. I fully realized it was juss a feeling for friendship and safeness. That is juss what i did...but sometimes yu must have faith in ur heart and listen to that...what i say is ur heart will never lie.
Hope I helped...
*Bryn*
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Ok my friend wants to kill herself and I am really scared for her!
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Wow....suicide is not a good thing in life but people still do it...and some of us dont understand why...the only thing yu can do is tell an adult....or even juss try talking to the person first....if yu give them what yu feel and than ask them why they are thinkin about suicide...maybe the person will think twice about it....but if the person keeps talkin about suicide GO TO AN ADULT! I hope I helped!
*Bryn*
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Ok......Well i have this friend who has been my BFF since 5th grade, Well now we are in 8th grade and now all of a sudden me and her arnt friends ne-more!! SHe says that she just used me for information and presents and she told my to go kill myself!! And now she is getting everyone against me!! Wat should i do?????? (link)
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Well...the only thing I can say...is move on cause she isnt worth it! Like I have said before....life is only worth living if yu have TRUE friends...member that!
*Bryn*
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ok i have this friend right and she is like turning against me just cuz she found out mi lil secret!!! you dont kno who i am so i can tell you it i have a problem wettin the bed its like not a thing i can help and now she wont sleep over at my house!!! please help i dont kno what to do!! (link)
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I'm not sure what yu could do..but I will try and help yu out here....ok...ur friend probably feels a little uncomfortable but if she is a tru friend she should like yu for who u are! No matter what life gives us...the only thing worth living for is a tru friend by ur side....I hope I helped some way!
*Bryn*
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hi... see i have this friend... she is like my best friend we have been friends for.. like 3 yrs... but there are ppl gettin in the way! like for instance there is this snotty girl who is tryin to take my best friend away from me bc they used to be best friends when they were little but not now and i just want to talk to my best friend and tell her like how i feel but im afraid my best friend cant keep a seceret bc in the past she told every seceret like when we got in a fight and we ALWAYS get in fights but i never say anything about her.... so i was wonderin what should i do about all of this its ONE HUGE MESS!
love,
Me!
oh and we are 12
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Ok....the best thing yu probably could do is talk to the other "snotty" girul and juss try and get to kno who she is....cause with good luck all of yu could become friends.....but yu probably kno the "snotty" girul and yu have tried to get to kno her....well talk to your best friend and say....I am afraid of losin yu because of someone else.....dont say names cause than she could tell everyone that yu were talkin behind someones back....juss explain how yu feel to her....if she doesnt keep the secret....juss maybe she isnt the friend yu thought she was..I hope I helped!
*bryn*
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ok where do i start???? ok i have this friend and she has been my frand forever and now her and her boyfriend have broken up and she was like horrified!! and now she found out5 thather boyfriend did stuff with another gurl b4 they broke up and she was sooooooooooooo pissed she couldnt believe thqat this person would this i mean the gurl was one of her friends and she knew that they were goin out and everything and she knew that they were happy and that they had just got in a fight and stuff and yea but the problem is that they are both my frands and i dont want to be in the middle of all this!! i love them both one of them i just became frands with and the other the one whos boyfrand cheated on her has been my best friend since 1st grade and i dont want them to be like saying stuff bout each other to me and then like expect me too say stuff to you kno i dont want them to get mad that im like "not on their side" or some shit but yea just please help me if you can in any way!! its hard for me to like make this decision and yea PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
mUaH
me!!!
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Ok....I kno how it feels to be in the middle of crap and it sucks bein in the middle specially when they two that are fightin are ur friends....if one of them says something about the other...tell them they need to talk to one another and keep yu out of it cause yu dont want to hurt anyone! they shouldnt be mad at yu cause yu are telling the truth...people should always communicate even if they dont want to...i mean everyone at one point talked about someone behind there back...but some of them didnt realize that maybe they should tell the person they are talkin about they have a problem with them cause if people dont hear the truth from yu right away they may not end up believing u....they should talk cause it could get serious...girl fights are bad...everyone has to go through them...but one thing that we should ALWAYS do is talk to one another..even if we dont want to...I hope i helped some way...if yu need more help on this...juss come and ask...i am never going to leave a question unanswered.
*bryn*
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what do i say to him? will he like me? how do we go out ? (link)
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It is actually very easy....make sure yu guys kno each other well....than ask someone yu trust to ask the guy yu like if he likes yu...talk to him some more after that..than start t the flirtin if ya havent yet....and than yu should be able to ask him out if he doesnt by then...hope i helped!
*Bryn*
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OK there is this gurl and she is like EXTREMELY annoying i mean like she NEVER leave me alone and shit and like she is nice and all but like i dont like her buggin me ALL the time how do i tell her without hurting her feelings??? i mean i cant be mean to ppl its just not me unless the piss me off but that is another story but like i dont want her to like start rumors bout me and shit so WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?
love
ME!
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OK....there isnt really a nice way to say something like that to someone...they will juss have to kno the truth one of these days....juss say,"i love ya and everything but please stop buggin me a little...dont be mad I juss need time for ME." If she starts rumors than she aint a tru friend yu thought she was....yu should have friends that care...if they are a tru friend she will stil want to be your friend and back off a little...i hope i helped!
*Bryn*
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ok i am 14 and my boy friend have sarted talking about sex....and i LOVE him and he makes me feel so good about myself......but i am kinda scared to have sex! by all means if i were to do it with some one it defentally would be him! Tell me what i should do! should i have sex with him or no! (link)
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OK....no I don't think yu should have sex right now cause than yu will get a bad image if people find out.....he should "love" yu for who yu are not for what yu do! Yu are 14 and right now yu should be thinkin about school and stuff not having sex wit ur boyfriend....hope i helped.
*Bryn*
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Im in between with my friends. I really have some sevi friends and 8th and 9th, but what is the "Popular" Group? What is the "gothic" group and the "sk8rs" why does evry thing got to have a lable i mean come on, who needs lables when everybody could be friends? i mean whats makes people think that they get to choose who is cool and who is not? whats the point?? please help me with this question b cz its rlly bothering me. to shorten it up for you : can you tell me why the popular people get to choose every thing.
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I dont really kno how to answer this questions but I will try and help yu out in this one....i guess it all depends on who the person is...popular kids think they rock the world cause they think since everyone supposedly loves them they will do whatever it takes to be with the 'popular' kids....im not sure how people get labels they juss do...it mustly starts when yu are in junior high cause there are more people.....people see yu and go ok she is a geek.,....ok he is a joke....ok she is a slut...and so on and so forth...when i think of groups like that i wonder the same thing yu do...and then i juss think...well that is what we have to deal wit for now....so i hope i answered that good enough...if i didnt juss ask me the question again and say i need more info or something....thankx for askin me! I hope I helped yu out!
*Bryn*
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everyone..listen up!!! brittany leigh lovro is one of the bestest people in the world..she can help so many people in many ways..she has helped me soo much so be sure to ask her questions..she alwasy will reply in a helpful way..
i love you brittany and thanks fer all the help.. (link)
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thank you!
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ok i have thisd frand and she has been there for me for like EVER!!! and now its like different. ever since she started goin out with this certian some one she is different. like when she is around him she dont act like she does when she is with me and like when she is with him she like dont eat and she is like always with him she isnt there for me no more like i kno that i shouldnt be that selfish but she is like my sister and i need her to be there for me when like i need some one to catch me when i fall you kno but i just dont kno how to tell her! please help me!
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I have gone through this before and there was nothing i could really do but wait...wait for the right moment to express how i felt. The only way yu can get to her is tell her what she is doing. I kno it may seem it wont help but I kno she will think about it. It may take awhile for her to figure it out but she will in time. I kno if yu need help and yu tell her taht yu do she should listen and help yu through....but if she blows yu off than I wouldnt say she is the friend yu thought she was....juss start talkin to other people and in time ur best friend will come along. She will realize what she lost and what she needs in life. She will realize she needs yu! Juss tell yu...chicks before dicks....or a nicer way...friends before guys....hoped I helped yu out!
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What kind of style do u like in guyz? like prepy ghettho Goth that stuff (link)
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um..lets see i like the preppy type and clean! Ghetto might be ok at times it all depends on the person...hope that answered ur question
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Alright..there are these two guys..lets say collin and devin..well i like both of them..but last night i found out who collin likes..and i also found out who devin likes. devin likes me..collin likes these two other girls in my class...and i am happy and sad..happy because devin likes me..but sad because i like collin more than devin. am i being selfish?? should i just stop liking collin and start liking devin more?! help me please! thanks!
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all yu have to do is follow ur heart....yu arent selfish of thinkin that...everyone does! I would juss try it with devin cause collin may not stop likin those other giruls! I know how it feels but I had to move on cause i knew there was no chance..it may be different...juss ask collin if yu have a chance and maybe in hte future yu and collin will be together but right now think of the present
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Whenever i straighten my hair, there's always a dent from the straightener @ the roots (where my part is). How do i get rid of the dent/prevent it? thanks i rate high!! (link)
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Well I do straighten my hair and sometimes that does happen...what yu have to do is not to press the starighten so hard up there..that should help
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okayy, well i mean ive madeout with guys before but i was just wondering if there was a way that you could do it wrong? im always afraid that they talk behind my back ro say stuff about how i like do it wrong. (link)
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It all depends on who it is with...like age or something....there really isnt a wrong way to kiss...but some guys do say stuff behind ur back...they will say like ya i did this wit her and all that crap...yu have to trust the guy yu are wit and trust ur heart....Thankx for askin if yu need any other help juss ask!
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