Member Since: November 23, 2016
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Last Update: November 23, 2016
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alot happened between me and a guy..he end up taking my v card and its been 2-3 years, he ended friendship for no apparent reason..i have a opportunity to talk him again on facebook, like now i can add him and message he blocked me in the past..he hurt me alot. i used have feelings for this guy,and almost over him. i will always care for him tho. but in a relationship now with a new guy who treats me well and stuff. i feel guilty at thought of this..should i add the old guy and be friends again or let my heart ache little longer and get on with life eitherway with the new guy? (link)
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Get over the old guy, he obviously didn't respect you as he should have.
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I want to start a youtube channel. Any ideas on things to do, and how to become popular? (link)
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Honestly you shouldn't expect views right away, but try gaming videos. Try to get your friends to watch and like the videos. Maybe get them to mention you on their channel.
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Hi all, 29/crazy cat lady. Kitties are all female, 8y.o.(Luna)is spayed, ~2y.o. (Siren) is not spayed, and almost-4-months-old (Addie) is not spayed.
So, I adopted Luna when she was 10 weeks old and have raised her as an only cat, and effectively my child. She now walks around growling and hissing at anything that comes near her, me included. That's not to say I don't still love on her and give her kisses and face-cuddles and pets... she just complains more.
I rescued Siren in June, and admittedly didn't get to do much of a slow intro with her and Luna. Luna found out about her very suddenly, and sequestered herself to the bedroom closet for a couple weeks...
Fast forward 10 days or so and I discovered Siren was pregnant. Kept the kittens until they were about 9-10 weeks old, and gave away everyone except Addie.
So, conditions under which Siren and Luna met weren't great. Siren is getting spayed tomorrow, which I'm hoping will help with her territorial-ness... Last time I tried to clip Luna's claws, though, Siren heard Luna getting mean and ran into the room and chased Luna away from me, and then seemed to be checking me for damage...
Luna HAS made progress - while she walks around hissing and growling at anything and anyone around her, she's no longer living in the bedroom. She even shares a bowl of dry food with the other cats, and is back to chilling on the couch pillows.
I guess - to those with catty (ha) horror stories - is there hope that these guys might at least get along?
I will not declaw anyone, so that isn't an option, and I really don't want to have to think about rehoming anyone... I picked Luna off the internet, but Siren picked me off the streets in Detroit, and Addie attached herself to me... it's not right.
Thoughts? Recommendations? Words of encouragement? Anything. Thank you all. (link)
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What needs to happen is that they need to build trust. See, cats are usually independent to begin with. Try putting them in a territory neither of them have been to. Maybe a park. Without territorial anger, the cats may bond.
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