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I have this friend who got a BF not to long ago. and shes been driving me up the wall with it. I mean, I'm happy for her and all, just am tired of giving her advice. I mean, im younger I dont know anything about relationships! I feel like blocking her just because im tired of it. So what do u think i should do?

i think you should tell ur friend ur annoyed and then give her a day. if she just got a bf then she still doesnt know what to do so give her a break.

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Hey K! I have this friend, whos very cool and easy to talk to. Yes we may be pen pals, but I feel like I've known her before. But lately, I think shes been annoyed with me. And I dont understand why. I tell her about my life cause I thought she cared about me. I mean I listen to her all the time, and really do listen, sometimes if i dont answer after she talks she thinks i dont care and I really do, but sometimes I dont know what to say. Wat do u think I should do?
Thanks for ur help

I would ask your friend if she was annoyed with you. Some times people are annoyed by other people and some times they don't even know it. Next time you talk to your friend, just tell her how how you feel and see what she says about her feelings to you. if she's a true friend she'll tell you the truth. but if she says BRB, or waits more then 2 minutes to reply and says no, that probally means shes annoyed with you but doesnt want to hurt your feelings. if she replys quickly then she's probally telling you the truth. but just to be sure you might want to talk to her a little bit and discuss how your feeling. if she knows what you think she might be willing to tell you what she thinks. sometimes even the closest of friends don't feel like they can trust their friends. try to get to know your friend again. I really hope this helps. Good luck with your friend.

Ms. K

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Hi K.

Me and my friend have been friends since 2006. And when we first met she was really cool. She's the sweet and innocent type. i'm like 3 or 4 years older then her. She's an allright person and all, but she's so annoying. She keeps talking about her school, her friends, her crushes, her home work, her period, and everything about her. And then when i try to talk about me she gets aggervated. Especially when i talk about my love life. It's like she wants to talk about her life, and love life, but doesnt want to hear about mine. And she says she cares, and that she just wants to see me happy. But shes so annoying, and bugs me, and gets on my nerves. Should I end the friendship or just wait a few more months and see what happens? Thanks.

Well if it was me, I would wait a couple more weeks, and see what happens. If she stops being annoying you could have an amazing friend ship. But some times a person can only get more annoying. So I would wait a month or 2. so in about april if she's not annoying any more then be her friend for a little bit longer. But if she's still annoying and bugging you, then tell her you've enjoyed your friend ship together but you think shes too annoying, and that she bugs you. and tell her you dont want to be her friend any more. but please remember she probally have feelings like you and me so if you have to end the friendship let her down gently. or you could slowly stop talking about her till you just drift apart. i hope this helped. enjoy your day.

Ms. K

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