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okay, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for like .. 7 months now .. and i love him to death. but for some reason .. all we do is argue now. that`s all our conversations are. i try and prevent the arguements and everything but he just still argues. and he likes to hangout with his "homeboy" a lot more now .. witch his "homeboy" cheats on his girlfriend all the time . i`m starting to suspect he`s cheating on me or something. but i love him so much i don`t wanna loose him. what should i do.? or how can i make this work.?

i know exactly what your going through and you might not like the idea of the thought of letting him go, but thats wat your going to have to do. me and my ex bf went through this and i asked the same thing. i sat there and thought of every way to make things work and then i finally realized, its not up to me to make things work. you can only do so much. a relationship takes two people and the fighting, in all honesty, probably isnt going to get any better. you need to talk to him and see whats going on and if he picks a fight, as hard as it will be, you need to be done with him. i know, trust me, its a lot easier said than done but if this is how hes ganna make yalls relationship, then in the long run, it will make u happy to let it go. may not seem like it now but it gets better :)

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