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Member Since: April 25, 2005
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I'm a bit overweight and so I've always been a little bit embarassed to exercise in front of people. It seems to just make things worse for me, because then I don't feel like I get enough exercise in the day, but I hate running because I'm slower and always afraid somebody will see me, and I don't even like doing stuff at home because my mom and dad might see me. Any good tips for conquering my fear or ways to exercise alone? (link)
I understand its really hard, I actually sometimes feel that way too. But we all need to feel confident in our bodies, and if your weight is a problem.. then talk to your parents they will definately be there for you. If you dont like to excercise around people, excercise with an excercise tape! There is one out there called firm which gives great daily excercises and keep you feeling good about your self. My sister takes yoga classes, which isnt really a form of work out.. its more of an art.. it actually keeps you antistressed. Its a beautfiul way to keep your self in a beautiful serenity lol if you wanna call it that. Most people in yoga classes are in for themselves.. they are probably just as stressed out as you might be..lol chances are they shouldnt give what you look like one second. you are just an ordinary person going to a yoga class just like them. People shouldnt judge and if they do you know that they are just to self concious and cant find anything better to do. But if none of this makes you feel better you could also try a personal trainor. those people are paid to do things to help people get fit. wether your pear shaped or need to loose a booty they know just what to do. they also give a healthy life style to live by. remember they see unfit people everyday and could care less what you look like. Soo talk to your parents and seee if any of these options help! Good luck!!!


Dudes

How can I get my mom to let me get my ears pierced? She says I have to wait until I'm fsxking 16! I just turned 15 two days ago!!! She says people would say I look like a sissy. Ok. Well, only the shallow asshats would actually say that out loud, and even then I don't care. They can bite me. But she says I have to wait until the age even SHE got them! 1) I am not a woman 2) I am not my mother.

M/15. I'm just /curious/ as to how I would look in them! If I dont like them I could just let it cover up. I seriously don't see her logic in this other than the usual parent crap 'I want you to be just like me and grow up the same way.'
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My best freind had that problem once and I told her the same thing I am telling you. What I do when I really want something and there's no way i can convince mom is.. research. yah yah I know it sucks but if you were to get online and do some research and write about the advantages and disadvantages of getting the ears peirced it might change her mind. it will show her that this isnt impulse and that you are really serious about this addition to your body. It also shows responsibility that you are willing to do everything it takes. and even then if she says no dont get mad or throw a fit that makes it worse.. it doesnt make you look to good either. Try to be mature and show your mom that you want to be treated more like an adult and really think this is a good thing




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