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Hi I'm Owen (19/m) - & I'm Dannii (15/f) and we're the world's most perfect couple! (so our friends tell us - and we agree) There's not very much at all we haven't dealt with within our fight to be together (there's not enough time to tell that story now) or within helping our friends with a whole host of stuff on a daily basis - we're the one's they all come to! So whatever is going on in your life - we're hear to help and we really do care about you! We are straight talking and say what we think (a word of warning) but we are on hear to help you, so welcome to advice4u. Talk to you soon, until then take care. Owen & Dannii (3rd OCT 2006) XX

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everyone always says that you should be totally comfortable before you have sex, and that if youre nervous youre not ready.. but then people always say youre gonna be nervous your first time. so how can you tell?

Its totally normal to be nervous the first time you have sex (I don't know anyone that wasn't) so I think the idea that if your nervous your not ready is a rule that will only lead to a lifetime of virginity!! And therefore is not a really very helpful rule. I think the question is more do you want to have sex with the person despite being nervous about it? and and are you excited at the same time as being nervous? if you answer yes and yes, your ready!!
OWEN & DANNII
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I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he's a wonderful guy and to me he's the type of guys girls look for not him as a person but his qualities like he's kind, sweet, generous, will leave his friends just to be with me, and different things well i really do love him and he wants us to get married but my dad hates him but he will not tell me why and my boyfriend has no secrets from me or lies to me but my dads always brining up things like "i know he's a liar and a cheater but im not going to tell you what it is i know" what should i do to make my dad like him please help me i don't know what to do?

Hi, unfortunately there's nothing you can do to make your dad like this guy! But even if there was why should you have to? The important thing is do you love this guy? do you want to marry him? Do you want to spend your life with him? - and is pretty clear that the answer to all three questions is YES! I can honestly say, without any fear of being wrong that your dad knows nothing to suggest your boyfriend is a liar or anything other than a good person who loves you very much. Your dad would just like to have something on him because then he would have a reason to dislike him. If he did know something, anything at all he would tell you - that's clear to anyone with more than half a brain cell! If your dad wants to behave in this childish, immature manor - let him get on with it! You enjoy your life with your boyfriend and let him wollow in his self pitty!
Let me know how things go?
Buy buy just now,
OWEN & DANNII
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