Member Since: January 7, 2005
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Last Update: January 9, 2005
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Sorry its so long.. but u need to hear the WHOLE situation to understand..
OK.. My coach and I used to get along really well. I play setter and I have for almost 4 seasons. Well.. im now on the high school JV team.. and theres another setter. OK fine. Well.. coach just GAVE her the position of starting (she didnt have to work for it). I asked him why.. and he said its because i dont work hard enough in practice. I argued with him about it for a few minutes and he just wouldnt listen to me. He said I need to work hard to earn my position. But in practice, I go out there and work my ass off. And this other chik just goofs off and stuff. None of our hitters like her.. and coach dont realize im the better setter (sounds conceided(sp?) but thats what all the hitters tell me)
I guess what im tryin to get at.. What can I do to prove to my coach that I really am workin my ass off out there to earn my spot in a game? And to prove that im the better setter on the team (link)
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I have a hockey coach that does the same thing. He plays the worse goalie (not me) and wonders why we lose games. He once yelled at me for letting in 3 goals in a game that we won 9-3. As he was yelling at me he said that there is a huge difference between the starting goalie's work ethic and mine which is bull. I am positive I work harder than her. What I an trying to get at is to hang with it. If you feel comforable talking to your coach, ask him/her what you could do to work harder. That tends to go along way with coaches.
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