Gender: Female Member Since: October 8, 2004 Answers: 2 Last Update: October 23, 2004 Visitors: 674
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okay well me and my boyfriend were doing great. then all of a sudden he stopped calling like he used to call everyday...now he barely calls at all. i thought it was maybe because i usually dont call him so i started callin him but hes just like kinda brushing me off. we planned to go to a halloween haunt thingy this year and him and his friends planned to go this frieday (tonite) and theyve been planing it for 2wks and i was at his house and all of a sudden they started talking about how it was gonna be so fun i was like where r u goin? he was like OH HALLOWEEN HAUNT...i was like oh...and he was like ya do u wanna come i was like why didnt u ask me sooner? HE SED HE "FORGOT"....also when i went to his house he was actin kinda rude..just kinda ignorin me and stuff....what does this all mean? how do i bring it up when he calls me n stuff...he called me last nite and i acted like kinda not myself like kinda sad n he didnt ask wats wrong or nothing....so how can i bring it up n tell him? is he cheatin....im really sad...=( (link)
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Well! First of all don't worry about him cheating on you! This happend to me too! I wouldn't worry about it. I would first of all talk to him comunication is the key in many realationships.. And well.. Just be like Hey I really need to talk to you its important.. and say somethin like Whats wrong how come you haven't been calling me or whatever but don't be rude about it. And don't forget to mention that you felt like he was being rude to you just tell him how you feel trust me it will make you fell a whole lot better!! And hey maybe he just wanted to hang with his friends and he didn't kno how to tell you.. .
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ok my boyfriend will leave me messages and at the end of them hell tell me he loves me...and then when i call him back or watever or in person he wont say it....like i wrote i love u on his hand one day cuz we wer messin around and he just smiled....im so confused why wont he say it to me in person or on the fone but hell say it in messages? (link)
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I think that he doesn't want to get too emotionally involved.. Or he is just too nerves.. like he don't kno how to just come out and say it! I Love YOu are 3 very strong words and a lot of things can come from them...
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