Hey!
my name is Lisanne....DUHH! and this is my advice column. I'm about 5'5 and i weigh....like i'd tell u. Anywayz....i play select soccer on the silver team @ MNYSA. Im goin into 7th grade @ east cobb...and thats it
xxx-Lisanne
E-mail: lisanne_eva@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Europe
AIM: HotPink5686
Member Since: July 26, 2004
Answers: 17
Last Update: July 31, 2004
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Hey,
im a popular girl but i get good grades. All the guys like me but they hate me getting good grades because the school where i go to...getting good grades is being a goody-good and my friends make fun of me.
-Confused (link)
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Hey,
being popular and getting good grades is not a bad thing. It actually makes ur schoo life perfect. No worrying bout ur homework and raising ur grades cuz u already have good ones and the guys like you. You shouldnt really care if ur friends dont appreciate u getting good grades. Its ur life not theirs....and ur gonna get into a better college this way. Just do ur own thing.....pple will learn to like you for who u r.
*~*Luv yaz!*~*
Lisanne
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Hey lisanne,
fist of all i LOVE ur advice. But my bf just broke up w/ me and it made me feel really bad, i dont know wut i did and when i call his cell to ask him...he always hangs up be4 i can explain. Wut do i do bout this??!!?!?
-heartbroken (link)
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Hey,
thnx!try to do extra fun things w/ ur friends......u really need them after a break up....trust me i kno. Go to white water of six flags or sumthin to get ur mind of of the break up. Besides....it takes you a while to get over it....but after a lil bit being single isnt that bad.....there's lots of hotties everywhere.
*~*Luv yaz!*~*
Lisanne
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hey.. well i hate this girl she bugs me soooooooooooooooooooooo much! and a lot of ppl hate her 2! she thinks she hot stuff, and everyone thinks shes hot and says all these guys like her and then i ask them and they do not! she so full of herself! it bugs the crape out of me! and she wants to be preppy but isnt.. its weird! i sometimes like her but i dont sometimes she always gets mad at me for the gayest things! tell me if i should tell her everyone doesnt like her? or like a lot of ppl dont! luv yas confused
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Hey,
try to talk to her about it, maybe she doesnt realize she is acting like this. Just try to tell her that it doesnt really matter who likes her or not as long as she has good friends to hang w/. She doesnt have to brag about it cuz it is really not that great. Just tel;l ehr that you dont like the way she has been acting lately.
Hope i helped,
Lisanne
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MY FRIEND HAS A WEIGHT PROBLEM. SHES RELLY FAT ND SHE KNOWS THAT. BUT SHE IS ALWAYS WEARING SHORT SKIRTS AND BELLY SHIRTS ND TUBE TOPS. ND I JUST DONT NO HOW TO TELL HER SHE LOOKS RELLY BAD N IT. THE OTHER DAY WE WENT 2 OLD NAVY ND SHE BOUGHT A BATHING SUITE THATS LIKE RELLY LITTLE ITS LIKE A BRA ND UNDERWEARE. SHE PUT IT ON AND IT SHOUD ALL HER STRETCH MARKS ND EVERYTHING. WEN WE WENT 2 WHITE WATER SHE WORE A BATHING SUITE THAT SHOUD EVERYTHING ALMOST. WE WENT 2 DA MALL AND SHE WORE A SHORT SHORT SKIRT ND U COULD C HER UNDERWEARE ND THIS HIGH HILL TENNIS SHOES ND EVERY 1 WAS LIKE WISPERING THAT SHE LOOKEDLIKE A HOE ND A HOOSHIE. HOW DO I TELL HER SHE NEEDS TO SHOW LESS SKIN?
PLZ HELP ME!!!! (link)
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Hey,
i kno you might be embarrassed becuz ur friend has a weight problem....but if she really feels comfortable wearing what she does. When you guys go shoppin together, and when she tries on sumthin' that shows her stretch marks....just tell her that you dont realy think its that cute and try to find an outfit for her that covers more of her body.
Hope i helped,
Lisanne
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my friend was datin some one and started dattin me and fucked me to and know i have sperm all over my bedf i can not let my mom see it so what do i do ???? (link)
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Hey,
you might wanna wash it when ur mom isnt home or take it to the dry cleaner or sumthing.
Love,
Lisanne
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ok the reson i dont like her is because shes relly hyper all the time nd she plys 2 much, nd shes never sirious about n e thing, nd she thinks shes always right, nd every time i try 2 do sumthing she always yells at me cause she sais i'm wrong. at school no 1 likes her i'm her only "friend" and pll dont like her 4 all da same resons. now wut should i do? (link)
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Hey,
maybe you should talk to her about it. Maybe she doesnt realize she is doing this things unless someone tells her. Just try to talk to her about it and see if she changes...
Love,
Lisanne
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hey of i have this friend ns i dont relly like her nd i dont no how 2 tell her. a few days ago she got relly sick nd now shes in da hospital. now i relly dont have the heart 2 tell her wut should i do?
much luv (link)
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Hey,
what dont you like about her....i need to kno this becuz then i could probabbly help you out a lil more. Dont tell her that you dont like her because she is in hte hospital and probably needs ur support. Tell me why you dont like her and ill be able to help u out more.
Lisanne
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Hey lisanne,
I hav these 2 bffs, and we used 2 be a threesome, but then one of the 3 homeschooled and started only inviting the other friend not me. I used 2 not care, but now that 1st friend ignores me and tells me she'll invite me ova, but she doesn't even call, or return my calls. When I try and tell her that she says shes 2 buzy 2 invite any1, but when I talk 2 her lil bro he says that she invites ppl all the time. What do i do?
signed,
lonely :-( (link)
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Hey!,
ok...if they do that to you....then they arent ur friends. I mean a true friend would always wanna hang outw/ u...kinda like when u havea bf or gf u alway wanna be w/ them and sometimes....its over. Trust me...shit happens.
Love,
Lisanne
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hey its me again..i get boners when i look at guys & yes I can get pregnant because i have both.
--Anonymous (link)
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Hey,
well.....i cant really do anything bout it...im no doctor....im just here to make u feel bettr.
Dontworry bout it....it can hppen.....its not the worst thing in the world...Love,
Lisanne
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HEY I REALLY NEED HELP OK. ok im a girl i sware.. but i was born with a penis which makes me REALLY self concious. Like I can get pregnant and stuff I just have a penis. The doctor said theres nothing he can do about it and it wont like kill me..it'll just be there. I even have BONERS...its SO embarassing and all my friends make fun of me for it!! they call me a heshe and say ill never ever get a guy! please help..
--Anonymous (link)
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Hey,
ok.......that is really really rare. Do yuo have boners when you look @ girls or guys??? And how can you get pregant if you have a penis??? Cant you have it like surgically removed??Umm....i dont kno wut to do about it but just ignore ur friends. Besides....if they make fun of you for it....are they really ur friends?? Sure u'll meet a guy....like they say...every girl ahs a prince charming looking for her...urs just took a wrong turn....ull meet the perfect guy for urself that will like u for who u r and wont care bout ur penis problem.
Kisses,
Lisanne
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Hey Lisanne,
I have a problem with drugs. I've tried almost every drug that you can think of- but my main one would probably be crystal meth. I've tried over and over to stop, but i just can't. It's like candy- you can't stop having it. It's just too addicting. Now my parents and friends have found out, and they don't like it very much. All my friends are afrais of me- except the ones who take the drugs with me, and my parents are extremely mad at me. They are even thinking of sending me to boot camp, and then after that, bording school. PLEASE- do you have any ideas for me to quit?
-Druggy (link)
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Hey,
drugs are very serious.....my advice to you is to just find another addiction. My grandpa was addicted to smoking and he wanted to quit so now whenever he has a crave for a cigarette he just eats peppermints. Also try to get involved in sports or other hobby's that will keep ur mind of it.
Kisses,
Lisanne
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Hey Lisanne,
A lot of people have problems at school w/ their friends...like them talking behind eachothers back and stuff. Its bugging me bc I'm afraid some one is talking behind mine and I'm pretty sure she is but she always denies it when I ask. I tought I could trust her until now and I dont know what to do.should I trust her anymore? Advice please!
Signed,
Confused (link)
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hey!
everyone talks behind everyone's backs...its middle skool thats how things go. I have heard some bad stuff about pple but sometimes pple just do that cuz they r u jealous of you. They are rumors and not true. Dont freak out about them just hold ur head high and pple will respect u for that....just act like u dont care wut pple think and say of u. Ur friend might talk about you behing ur back......and if she does.....she isnt a very good friend.
Kisses,
Lisanne
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hey my friend is really nice and funny and stuff but shes kinda a slut most of the time and thinks shes all that..like shes changing..me & my friends wanna tell her like how shes actiing but we dunno..what shoiuld i do?? (link)
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Hey!
if u really think that she is a slut and that she thinks shes on top of the world then u and ur other friends should just tell her how u feel...it might help cuz sometimes pple dont even kno how stupid they are actin until someone tells them.
Kisses,
Lisanne
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Hey lisanne,
I have this problem. Ihad sex witht his guy at a party I went to, and I barely even know him. I'm only 15 (almost 16) and I don't know what to do because now I'm pregnate and I have to get an abortion. Now all my friends are calling me a slut and a baby killer, and it makes me feel REALLY bad. When people call me a baby killer, I do feel like a killer, and it's not a great feeling AT ALL. Thanks.
-Slut? (link)
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Hey,
im not sure wut u should do about this....u should just always have "safe" sex so that u can prevent these things from happening. Only do it like not safe if u really want a baby. This is ur own decision and i cant really help u w/ this. Sorry....i tried.
Kisses,
Lisanne
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Hey, I don't wanna say my name but I've had a boyfriend for a year and I'm going into 7th grade. He wants to take it to the "next level" and to have sex..but I'm not sure if i should even though I want too..please help!
-Anonymous (link)
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Hey!
Im not sure if it would be a good idea....i mean ur only goin into 7 th grade u have ur whole life ahead of you to do those thins just take things slow. If ur bf doesnt understand that u want to but that do it w/ him but u r not ready then maybe its not mean to be cuz every guy should understand and not push a girl to have sex w/ him.
Kisses,
Lisanne
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Ok say I have a dog and a cat.n everytime my dog sees my cat..he like growls..n i really dont know what to do about it!!!! i mean his growlin scares me n i just dont think its normal!!! Please help me.... (link)
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hey!
i have two cats and no dogs becuz my parents dont think they would get along to well. Usually dogs and cats get along when you get them when they are both puppies so they can get used to each other. I dont really kno wut to do about it, just keep ur cat in one room and ur dog in another.....besides that....i dont really kno wut to do about it. Maybe u could like....ask the vet about the growling or something.
!~*Kisskiss*~!
Lisanne
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ok, lets say that i hav a gf, but a bunch of gurls lik me, and my ex thought that i cheated on her with the gurl im goin out wit now, but at the same time ther are a bunch of rumors bein spread and gurls r hittin on me ne wayz and doin a bunch of that kinda crap, wut should i do 2 straighten it all out? (link)
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hey!
when girls are hitting on you and u really dont want them to....then just be like "I have a gf and clearly i dont like otherwise i would have asked u out so leave me alone" and then you wont have a problem w/ ur gf thinkin u cheated on her.
!~*Kisskiss*~!
Lisanne
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