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Hey! I'm 13,5'4'',brown hair with highlites,
brown eyes that change color in the light
and i'm beautiful!lol!plus i give great advice!!
i'm there if u need me!! just ask me anything and i'll try to give u an answer u'll be reasonable with! i hope i can help!! well ask me anything!
E-mail: CuTiE251991@cs.com
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can a boy be a virgin (link)
yes... i think


my two friends, "ally" and "laurie" are in a fight. i am REALLY good friends with both, and so i get together with each and equal amount. the only problem is that whenever i'm doing something with ally, she disses laurie, and whenever i'm doing something with laurie she disses ally. i obviously don't talk about either of them behind there backs, but i don't know what to do to get them to stop. plz help. (link)
same thing happened to me! my mom gave me some advice: here it goes! well tell both of them that u'd like for them not to talk about each other when ur around them! it worked for me...but
i'm still in the middle and it's still working!
hope i helped!!=)


basically, he wanted the girl to tell him that she liked him first, cuz he likes it when girls do that. so i still think he likes me, im just not totally sure.. :\ i guess i'll find out tomorrow hopefully. (link)
ooo ok i get it!! =) well keep me posted on wat happens tomorrow! or email me at Fahrudin1@cs.com


ok so well.. you answered my question.. so anyways i was just gonna say that i did flat out tell him i liked him and stuff but he didnt really say anything after that.. so i didnt know if i freaked him out cuz i thought it was me and he was saying how he likes when girls "take control" and stuff. but thank you for your advice! :-D (link)
i dont understand wat u mean by h likes it when girls "take control"?! so does he like u or not?
write bac!


I work with mostly guys, and they're all really nice, but I'm a girl so I'm not sure how much they want to know about all my issues. Like today, one of them said I looked kind of down. I lied and told him I was fine, even though really I'm on my period and had cramps and my boobs were hurting and I had one tampon left that I had to hope lasted the rest of the day. Is that the sort of stuff that I should always just keep to myself, or you think I could just let it out and see what happens? (link)
you shouldnt tell them about wats realy happening
but u could just tell them ur stomach hurts or something like that!telling guysstuff like that just grosses them out. hope i helped!


OK well.. there is this guy I like. He's 16 (i'm 14). I talk to him on the internet almost everyday. Well we just had this conversation where he was asking me advice and stuff and he was asking about this girl he liked and if he should tell her or not, so i told him to try hinting to her that he liked her. and he said well i just made a major hint. so i thought it was me :\ and i was like well if the person is who i think it is you have nothing to worry about ;) and then he asked me who i thought it was. so i was like well if you are talking about me, i like you, etc etc etc. but he never really responded to that. so i dont know if its me or not, but i feel kind of dumb because we are supposed to go to the movies tomorrow and i really do like him. so i dont know what to do. (link)
hi! well u should just up srtaight tell him that u like him and see how he reactes! with the info u gave up there i'm thinking he likes u!well thats wat i think!like i said ushould just tell him that u like him! hope i helped! good luck and keep me posted!! lyl hope things work out for u!
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- jelena


well my friend really annoys me should i tell her that or what (link)
yes u should tell her that! tel her she's annoying u and that it bugs u and tell her to stop doing watever she's doin to annoy u! believe me it helps! my friend annoys me all the time and i tell her but she doesnt get mad or say we shouldnt be friends! hope i helped!! =D
hope it works!! good luck!! :D


what do you do when your friends b/f starts following you between different class periods and your best friend gets mad because she thinks me and her b/f are goin out ,,,,what do i do (link)
hi! u should sit u friend down and explain to her
wats really going on!if she doesnt beleive u...
well then tell her b/f to stop!
hope i helped!! =) good luck!!


I HAVE A REALLY BAD HABIT ;; I SUCK MY THUMB I HAVE ALL MY LIFE AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO TO HELP ME STOP IVE TRIED EVERYTHING NUTHYN SEEMS TO WORK ;; MUCH LOVE KATIE (link)
hi! u could put mittens or socks on ur hands!
it worked for my sis!


i really like this guy and i think he likes me to but im shy and really afraid to ask him out.he always stares at me and blows kisses to me can some one help (link)
if ur scared to ask him out ... write a note or something! or ask a friend to ask him out for u...
i kno those options r kinda stupid but they might work!! keep me posted!!
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I am a 13 year old girl, and my friend invited me to a party. She just said it was a plain old party, so I went. Some people that I'd seen before, but didn't know exactly were there, just playing like you're supposed to at a party. My friend, and a few other people that I knew, were all making out in another room. I left immediatly.

Now my friend is having another party. I don't know what to expect. I asked who she was inviting, and she told me, and I know everyone who she invited. She told me that, again, it would be a fun, plain old regular party. Can I trust her on this, or should I just not risk the chance of being stuck at a make-out party again? (link)
hi! u should trust her this one more time! everyone deserves a second chance! but if she lies this time again then dont trust her the next
time she has a *plain regular party* don't trust her!! hope i helped!! keep me posted!!
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