Hi everyone! I'm andi...better known as sparkle26. im a female in my teens. here's some things about me...i love music...especially rock n roll and i play guitar. i'm also an artist-in-training. ive been painting at an art studio since i was 4 or 5.i'm also a runner. my philosophy is to always look at life at a bright, lively perspective. feel free to ask me a question any time!
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I have been with my bf for 3 years. When I met him he was very depressed & not mentally all there so i guided him through the hard times he had & he turned out amazing. Now its been 3 years and a couple of months ago he started to slap & rip my hair when he gets mad! I said I am not going to accept this & left then helped him seek help about his problem. When I began to see improvements in his behaviour I stupidly forgave him & come running back. Now he close fist hits me & I have had enough. Each time I try to walk out the door he gets more mental coz he knos I am the one who helps him. But I dont understand why I have to get a fist to the face when I havent done anything wrong. Should I stay & help him through this like I have been or forget him & move on?? I love him & I kno he has potential to improve its just the waiting & anything can happen from here on end. HELP PLEASE :( (link)
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Get out of the relationship right away. if you don't leave him, you are putting yourself at risk. have confidence. stand up for yourself. you have NO right to be treated that way and deserve better. he shouldn't be taking his problems out on you. its one thing if he has emotional problems and helping him through the bad, but its another thing if he takes out his emotions on you. you deserve better than being a boy's personal punching bag. in the words of bob marley, stand up for your right! there are plenty of fish in the sea, and im sure a wonderful guy will come along that will treat you with respect and make you happy. true love never involves violence. go find your real true love
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