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Gender: Female
Location: Ontario
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Age: 26
Member Since: July 19, 2014
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My fiancée is amazing or so i thought i fought him texting girls saying he wanted to fuck them and be with them but at the same time he said to them i love my woman tho ill never leave her what should i do we been together for three years hes talked to everyone with a vagina lol im sad lonely and wanna die i know he wont cheat but i cant get over the hurt he wont even admit to talking to anyone idk what to do i love him (link)
I must disagree with the other answer to this question. Instead of just taking it as "All men do this, so it's ok..." approach what you should try is to spice up your relationship. Men are like dogs, not to sound rude, but they can be trained - as long as you are suiting their needs and wants. Perhaps ask your man what he wants in the relationship that might be different Sometimes men will go through this if they've become bored with the relationship as sad as it is. Be open with him, explore with him. Make him see what he would be missing if he ever did screw things up. Make him want you more. Try changing things up in the bedroom, give him massages, make him a sandwich, seriously catering to your man will make him happy - which will make you happy in the long run. I don't know your living situation but I will assume he works hard. Even if you work hard as well, never fail to recognize how amazing he is. The whole point is to make him fall in love with you all over again, and maybe make cell phone/computer rules. If you don't go on your cell phone, or the computer around him - let him know it would mean a lot to you if he reciprocated the favour. Then at least you won't have to see him "sneak" texts. Also, gain his trust by leaving your cell phone out, your facebook open etc.. a relationship is a two way street and what you put out into it, you will get from it. :) Good luck.




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