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hi my name is anna :) i'm 17 years old and i like helping people :) i think that everyone deserves a second chance,life is pretty fun :D love is thrilling and friends are like angels who have the nerves to deal with our constant drama :P my favorite quote is that anything is possible :D people learned how to fly so i don't think that impossible things exist ;) just lazy people :P
DON'T WAIT FOR AN EXTRAORDINARY LIFE-MAKE IT :D if you need me i'm always willing to help guys :)
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Age: 17
Member Since: October 2, 2012
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I have a boyfriend i have been with for a year and he has always been controlling. I am at the point were i cant take him telling me what i can and cannot do. I have told people about him and all of them have said get out now he is going to become abusive. I believe them because there have been times where he gets so angry that he is about to punch me but ends up not doing it. I am so sick of all the pointless pain. I am trying to get out now but he keeps saying i will change i cant live without you. I can't get out someone help. Please :( (link)
maybe he loves you but even if he does that doesn't mean he's going to change...somethings aren't up to us unfortunately :/the controlling part is a part of his personality and he just can't change the way he is..this kind of relationships usually don't end up good.i think that if you don't want to be really hurt you should get out as fast as you can...tell him how you feel,if you are scared text him or something :/ and tell him that you can't go on like this anymore.just do the thing that seems more right to you and don't be afraid :) everything will be ok in the end-always :) stay positive and you will make it,no one deserves your tears :)




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