about

Hey there, my name's pronounced like chan-dah, rhyming with panda. I'm 16 and a junior in an all girls Catholic high school.


Just a wee bit of a side note: I'm not claiming I know answers, I'm saying I can give options. I'm hoping with Advicenators I can learn as well as help others because, truth be told, I like helping people with problems because it makes me forget about my own & I love discovering and educating myself on new things.


Carrying on, here's some random tidbits about yours truly!:


I'm very diverse. Not only as a means of my heritage (Cambodian, Portuguese, Chinese) but also in reference to my wide range of interests. I've been hip hop dancing my whole life, I cheer for a D1 high school football team, I'm thoroughly involved in various clubs, I've shown much interest in the performing arts, and I am also a karate and MMA feen!


I love to meet new people! Seriously, I could spend hours and hours on Skype with someone just discussing life, politics, relationships,... anything! My crudy webcam never gets in the way of that! ;)


I'm always busy. One would think because of this fact I'd actually want to distance myself away from the computer, as a means of wasting time and what not, but I find it to be a nice reward after hard work with school, AP classes, Tumblring like it's my job, sports, online learning courses, and maintaining a social life.


I'm very crude and raunchy and know lots about the baby-making field, despite my nothing less than holy status. I guess it's part of my personality that loves to make "that's what she said" jokes and perverted puns.


Feel free to ask me anything! No question will be turned away from! That's a promise, xo

advice

i started my senior dance solo and i don't like it at all. i can't connect to the music and the dance is just weird. the song i'm dancing to is "roses" by meg and dia. i want to change my song to "it doesn't hurt" i think by katie thompson? i dont know. but the thing is i'm already a minute through the solo. i'm scared to ask my dance teacher to change the song and dance. i would pay more to change it but i'm nervous about her reaction. what should i do?

As a dancer myself, I know the importance of connecting with a song. If you're not fully into it, your facial expressions and dancing will not be to its prime. Your best bet is to tell your dance teacher and be upfront about it because in the long run, it doesn't hurt her, it's actually good for her because she can make some more money, haha! If you prolong and wait off telling her, you're gonna end up hurting yourself even more! You should tell her ASAP so that way you can start working on your new song. Who's to say she won't like your song selection even more?! You never know... :)

Just remember: dancing is an art that combines not only motions and music but also passion and without both, you're left with nothing.

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