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My name is Kelsey and I am so glad you are reading my bio. This means you're interested in my advice. I am a straight A student and I enjoy reading, writing, playing soccer, excercising, hanging with my friends, and helping people with their problems, which is where you come in. I am on the newspaper committee and I plan to join it's academic. I hope to play tennis this spring. I am very friendly and fun to be with. I hope you enjoy my advice and ask me more questions dealing with your problems. I promise to respond ASAP. L8r
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I movewd to my town about a year and one half ago...the first year was pretty cool..always having fun.The summer of that year,i never saw any of my new friends...and the following beginngingyear (this year..) almost all my friends turned on me..andnot many people like me..im quiet when you dont really know me..im small and un-noticable..its like the people on this team dont care about me now,all of them are mean they pretend to be nice..my friend(i tihnk..) told me that some people dont like me cause she asked and she was sorry about it..im so sad that things turned out this way,most of the time i just get my work done and leave people alone..because im not sure whos real or not..i hang out with my other friends sometimes (from the town i lived in befor) and im really really sad..i just want to move back..but now that i've changed and im so quiet how will i be like there now? and my real question is,How can i tell if a friend is true,or just pretending to like me? (link)
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I totally understand what you mean about the whole "who's real, who's not" deal. All I can simply say is that most females are lying, manipulative, mean, people. You and I are exceptions and that's why we find issues with friends. We aren't fake so we don't just play along with the "I hate her, she hates her, she hates me" etc. There really is no way to tell whether someone is real unless they just seem different. My advice is to do what I do, make a bunch of guy friends because guys are never fake. They're straight forward and I can see that's what you are searching for. I understand how you feel about wanting to move back, but you need to realize that in life you can't always "move back". Just remeber one day, they're all going to be nothing and it's gonna kill them because that's the only thing they have going for them. You on the other hand seem to have the power to go places in life, and high school and middle school are only important know. Sooner than later, you're going to be doing your thing while these "friends" are bumming society and feeling worthless. Things will get better. You gotta work with time. Also, as for your dream. Don't try to be something just to say "Ha, look at me now". Be something you have a passion for and if you pursue it, you will be known. It doesn't have to be something as rare as wanting to be a singer, but could be something like I want to be which is a neurosurgeon. One day, I will be known if I am a good surgeon and I could even find cures or come up with new surgical techniques and be found regularly on the television. So, I give you no tips on getting famous because that is simply who you know. It's also not the life you'd imagine and you'd probably end up miserable. So, try meeting new people and not just guys but maybe girls who are interested in the same things you are. Also, remeber that "obstacles {the friend issue} are the scary things you see when you take your eyes off your goal or destination". Maybe you'll have to wade it out alone now, but everyone has their "time in the spotlight" and yours is bound to happen sometime. Good Luck and hope this helps :)
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ok well i have this really hot niebor and we like to insult me like flirting. well one day i was on the porch at like 11 he just pulled up in his drive way.. he is 16.fence and he started to make these sex noises like he was fucking me .. but i just wanna no if that means he likes me (link)
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Does he want you, you ask? Obviously, but the real question is do you want him? I mean do you really want a guy who just wants to get in your pants or would you rather have someone with more cooth and more to offer. Yea, maybe you and this guy might last a night or too, but sex is only a small part of what holds couples together. You need a guy who you deserve and who deserves you. This guy I can tell wants you tonight, and then it'll be someone else. Please think this through before you let him get with you and get away from you. You deserve better, every girl does. So get someone who'll respect you. You'll be glad you did. :)
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I was wondering about Planned Parenthood. I know that you can go there and get condoms, birth control, morning-after-pill, etc. but I had a few questions. Can you just go in there and get condoms or do you have to like sit down and talk with a few people there with them asking you questions and saying make sure you're safe and ready, etc? Also, if you go there to get birth control, do they have to give you an exam "down there" or what all do they do? Plus, they don't tell your parents about it.. do they? I heard they were completly confidental. I'm just curious!! I rate high. (link)
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When you ask for whatever it is you need from the Planned Parenthood, they may ask you a few questions depedning on who you speak with, however you can simply say you would rather not share this buisiness and that is only a matter if they even start questioning. As for the exam, no they don't automatically unless you ask for one. Then they'd be glad to. Also, you are right about the confidentiality. Where I live, they are not allowed to tell anything to your parents unless you ask for a HIV test and it comes back positive and again this only applies to you if you
A get the test and test positive
or
B are under 18
Other than that test and having a positive result, the rest is totally off limits for mom and dad. Hope this helps. :)
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