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well, teenagers are bound to have issues. whether its with suicide, drugs, alcohol, or family. and my friends have a lot of problems. as well as me.

my friends give me great advice on my issues, but the probelm with me? i SUCK at giving good advice. earlier, one of my friends was about to kill himself because he was about to be shipped off to boot camp. i tried to tell him it was gonna be fine, but of course i dont know that!!

i am really bad at making people feel better, i just make them feel worse. and then i feel worse. how am i supposed to make them feel better? i want to be a good friend, but everything i try is just useless, cliches on how to focus on the positives. we're teenagers. no one focuses on the positives until they reach midlife.

what do i do?? (link)
well, obviously when i'm giving advice i can sit infront of my computer as long as i want to think about my answer. well i know this is not the best advice on this but i guess for me people tell me i give good advice.But, you just have to be there for because he needs you right now.


i am a female and i just had sex with my boyfriend and it burns when i pee what does that mean?
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it could be a sexually transmitted disease if it doesn't go away in a couple days then see your/a doctor. it could end up serious but don't worry hope this helped you.


my boyfriend finishes in my everytime we have sex for like a whole year he has && I never became pregnant..&& I dont even take birth control or anything to that extent..is anything wrong with me? I want kids in the future is this a bad sign already that I cant?! (link)
it can be or maybe he's the one with the problem. there is no way to be sure. so you both should see a/your doctor if your very interested in finding out. hope this helped you out.


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me and a friend, we'll call her T. T is bi. I am supposed to be straight, but I'm confused now. Well, T and I went to a friends house and when my other frined fell asleep, we played truth or dare. I couldn't thing of one, so I said
'i dare you to do the first thing that comes to your mind when I say sexy.' She kissed me! She grabbed my face and kissed me! it was surprising and it scared me. but that wasn't the scary part. the scary part was... it was a nice kiss. well, then I was quiet and obviously, thinking about very stupid things. my friend said, i dare you to kiss me back. i don't turn down dares, but this one was a little creepy, but for some reason, i kissed her back. unfortunately, things got a little out of hand. she dared me to get on top of her in the bed, so i did... then, i think we made out then just... uh humped each other for a while. it was okay, but when i didn't feel that weird urge anymore, i felt so stupid. i cursed myself and i still do! the same thing happened again a couple weeks after school let out. only this time, we got a bit undressed, not all the way. again, i don't get how it happened. i don't want to be bisexual or lesbian. i want to be straight and straight all the time. what do i do about this?! I couldn't be considered bi could i? I get angry afterwards, then don't get turned on by any other girls. just guys... and then when T does the dares, then i get... yea. so, what do i do?!
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maybe you should talk to "T" about this and tell her how you feel maybe she'll understand. If you don't feel comfortable telling her then maybe you should take some time to think about if you may have feelings for her and not guys or her and guys.I hope this helped you.


my boyfriend and i were fooling around and his penis was next to my vagina but he never pre-ejaculated or ejaculated, nor had he prior to us fooling around. i took the morning after pill that morning just to be on the safe side because i got paranoid. i know its a stupid question cause you need sperm to get pregnant, but i cant get pregnant from that right?
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well you could maybe so you should get a test from the store or get tested at a/your doctor just to be 100% sure. It is always better to be safe then sorry right. ok well i hope your not and hope that this advice helps you.


Sunday I lost my virginity... and I did bleed and everything...but also Tuesdays i started getting this reddish brownish discharge in my panties. Is this normal...I'm still getting it and it doesn't hurt or anything it just feels like I'm on my period. Is this normal or what is it! (link)
well i don't want to scare you but it isn't normal and it could be a sexually transmitted disease you should go see a/your doctor.




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