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I really like this guy and I wanna have sex with him, only, I'm a virgin. I don't know how or what it's like and I'm really nervous. Any advice or tips or could any of you girls tell me what it's like to be layed? Anything will help. Thanx
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well first off before you have sex with him answer these questions:
do you really love or just really like him?
are you ready to be a parent?
are you ready to commit?
is he the one you wanna share this with?
also think about the regrets of having sex unmarried and young. things like pregnacy which lead to money problems and difficult times with the family. you might as you get older regret having sex with someone you truly didn't love. think about all these things. don't settle for i like him and i'm ready to give it up. settle for i love him and he's the only one i want to give it to.
also if you must do it use a condom. i am really the type of person who is going to wait till married but some people aren't. see a gyno about birth control. talk to your parents about the possiblities.(you don't have to tell them your having sex but it might be easier for you to understand their points)
and if you need to talk to your friends because if they are true friends they will help you. if they aren't virgins they will give you tips that can be very useful.
make sure and ask him if he has any diseases or anything like that. after having sex check in with a gyno to discuss what happened as in if you have a disease because if found early enougha and treated properly you can survive STD's HIV's and other things of that matter♥
hope i helped
Cheyenne
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I had sex with my best friend (a guy) a little while ago. We both admited feelings for each other & have been a couple before, but things still aren't going anywhere even though it's what we both want. Help! (link)
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♥if you know you have feelings for him and he has feelings for you then talk to him. ask him if anything is wrong(but don't annoy him). make sure your both on the same page about where you want your relationship to go.
♥if your worried about what to say then start out the conversation with something your conforatble with. once that conversation evolves start to gradually change the subject. this gets you conforatble before jumping into things.
♥if this doesn't work you might just have to express once again your feelings for him. sometimes guys have the notion to think that once a girl says it to them there isn't any left after that. its sucks i know!
-Cheyenne
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