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Hi everyone. My name is Tamera. I live in Albany, New York and am 23 years old. I stumbled upon this site when looking for joke advice for my pre-school class and found a gold mine. I have a wonderful husband that i have been married to for 2 years and we have a beautiful 3 week old daughter. Since i will be home from work a lot because of the baby, i will be able to give advice as much as possible. I have 2 teenage siblings (twins- a brother AND a sister!) so teens come to me for advice as well.
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Me and my boyfriend have been deeply in love for a year. All we've ever made it to is 2nd base. Yesterday I was talking to him and he asked if I was a virgin,I said I was and he did too. He then proceded to tell me that even if our relationship didn't work out in the long run he'd like to lose it to me. I had been thinking this for months. We both want to make love, not just have sex. The problem is we are NEVER alone. He still lives with his parents and the don't trust us to be alone. Neither does my mom... And if they left us alone he still has a little brother that follows him around every where. I need sugesstions, *sigh* I don't want a 2 minute quickie in the bathroom...

You reminded me of how my husband and i were when we were just dating. We had the same problem. He had an older sister who wouldn't leave us alone for the life of her. We always would tell our parents we were going to a friends house and then he would pick me up or his friend would pick me up from the house i was supposed to be staying at, and we would get a hotel room or even just go to a friends house. I believe that everything happens for a reason, though, so if for some reason no matter how hard you try to make love, it doesn't work out- that just means its not time. Good luck.
Tamera

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