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I am an easy person to get along with. I also enjoy giving advice, and I am pretty good at it. I tend to have a bit of a gift for giving advice. So if you need help then feel free to ask..The one thing about me though is i will not "sugar coat" anything if you want to know then you need to accept whatever answer I may give you. Hmmmm..some things you may want to know about me?
-I'm 17 years old,female. No, because of the obvious reasons..I will not release my name, or my state I live in.
-I absolutely love little kids, and animals.
-I am in a really serious relationship
-I have had a lot of experiences and I am very wide ranged..for advice giving I mean. I have had a tough past, and can answer alot.
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15/F the other night my boyfriend was fingering me and i'm pretty sure he found "my spot" -- it didnt feel that great, like, it didnt hurt, but it didnt feel as good as it CAN and HAS felt before .. but i came. i've only cummed once before that and both times it felt really uncomfortable right before it happened. how can cum when hes doing THAT - and not when he's doing things i actually like?

you may not think you like it..but your body has another say on the matter. try to relax more maybe you are not relaxing enough to realize your body is happy. thats the natural reaction a womans sexual excitement

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ok soo, this is my first month starting birth control.. and me and my boyfriend have sex quite frequently.. without a condom.. but he still pulls out. i know it isn't smart but anyways is the birth control affective the first month? bc im already having signs of sore breast and cramps and i spotted a little bit, and i hope its not pregnancy, and just the start of the birth control?

PLEASE HELP.

i feared what you are afraid of now when i started (been on it almost a yr now) birth control begins to be trully affective at about 2 weeks into the pill. so if you are your good. if not then you really need to be careful because my dr. said if you do it when you first start before 2 weeks are up then its actually worse than before without pill or condom..so good luck.

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ok well i'm catholic but i masturbated and it feels really good even though feel uncomfortable i do it well cause i love the feeling should i stop? my friend doesn't know but we talked about it and she said people encourage it please help me cause i really like doing it

it is perfectly normal..even though it is against your religion..i dont think you should stop. in a way it helps keep worse from happening..like sex.

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I'm lesbian. My girlfriend was fingering me and she tore my hymen. Does that mean that I'm not a virgin anymore? I'm 15 and I've never had sex with a guy...

I'm clueless!
Please help.

you technically are..because the term for virginity is that you have not had a penis enter your vagina. but since you are a lesbian then you kinda are not..its really hard to explain. sorry..i cant help much

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okay i've never had sex before and don't plan on it for a long time. my boyfriend & i of 7 months will make out n do stuff like that naked. he'll ejaculate on like my thigh but not my vagina, is there anyway from that that i could get pregnant? can you get pregnant from a guy not going into you, like if it touches my region is there a chance of me geting pregnant or something? please help! thankss a bunchh xox.

well you dont have a high risk. but unfortunately you do have some because if he does ejac there, or rub his penis along you and say there is some sperm infested semon then you could in fact get preg..sorry if this bothers you. just be more careful. maybe have him ejac on your chest or somewhere further from your vagina.

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What excatly is an orgasm?

a reaction your body has to any high amount of sexual arousing and males and females can both get them

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ok im almost 18 and when i was younger i experminted i was like 6or7 at the time it was like 10 or more years ago and the kid i experimented with was like 8or9 only like 2 years older than i am and i havent done anything since than nothings been in there fingers or nothing and i want to know can i still consider myself a virgin it happened so long ago and do you think that ill be tight still i dont even remeber if it fully went in or not i mean he was only like 9 how big can it be so will i still be tight like a virgin please help

Sorry to tell you but your not. sex is sex no matter your age.

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my cervix is really low i can touch it. how will i have sex

talk to a GYN. you do not want to hurt yourself.

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well what if you and your boyfriend want to have sex but you are both still virgins and you dont want anyone one to know if you lose your viginity

you talk it over, use protection, think it over, dont rush, be gentle and listen to each others needs.

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well i have this boyfriend, and he is older and more experienced then i am. He says that he loves me and he wants to be with me I love him soo much. He says that he wants to take it to the next level. Where im from alot of the girls my age arent virgins and dont care bout sex or nethin. Im young but veryy mature for my age, i dont know what to do, I feel that im ready but i dont know.

You need to look deep inside your heart and ask yourself if you love this guy or not.You also need to consider if you can bare the thought of possibly breaking up with him, and never being able to share your virginity with your true love. But, if he is your true love then you should go for it...but this may not be right..it kinda depends on your age.

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I have a really really important question. It's gonna be long,,sorry, but plz answer!! I will rate.

My best friend told me her deepest darkest secret. Her secret was that she was raped by her cousin as a child.(7 yrs old.) He actually had sex with her, but she doesn't think that he "popped her cherry". She didn't really know what was going on...and she told her parents about it and everything when it happend. (we are 14 now) My question is: is she a virgin?

In technicality your friend is not a virgin because it's sex. However, I personally do not count rape as a form of losing your virginity..she did lose it by force in all reality though. Please tell her I am terribly sorry for the news. Hug her for me to.

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