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wtf is a "lap dance"? (link)
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usually done by a female to a male, where she dances provocatively, rubbing her ass on his lap and such and is usually paid to do so
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19/f
Okay I'm kinda in a bad situation. This 23-year-old man and I are friends, well more like friends with benefits. He has a girlfriend, but he and I have been messing around since February. It started off as him giving me a massage, but it developed into something I didn’t expect. I know that it’s wrong but it feels so right. LOL!! I'm a virgin (by intercourse), and he knows it, but he is not. He says he doesnt't mind it, but i dont believe him. We have gotten as far as oral sex. Sometimes I feel like I want to have sex with him so bad, and other times I feel like I should wait. My question is should I have sex with him since we already gone so far?
2) When we get together to mess around, he calls me “baby”. Well he doesn’t call me anything else but “baby” when we mess around. Is that just because he is into the moment or am i blowing things out of proportion?
3) He asked me did i miss him over the summer, and i said no but i miss what we do. He said me too, and asked me why I didn’t miss him. i told him that i just didn’t and then he got mad. Does that mean he wanted me to? And does that mean that he missed me?
4) Should I stop messing around with him? Please give me a reason!!! (link)
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i dont think you should even be kissing the guy .. he has a gf .. i mean there are so many other guys who are single ..dont fuc around with other girls men its just not right and sure you wouldnt like it either so its best if you find a guy who doesnt have a gf
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17/female. I forgot to take my birth control pills on Saturday morning at the usual time(about 7.30 weekdays, about 10am weekends). I had to go to work on Saturday so I couldn't take it til I got home which was about 4.30ish.
My question is I am planning to have sex on this Friday - I'm not a virgin, I've had sex with my bf before and I'm definitely sure I want to do it etc. My question is would it be as safe as it normally is when on the pill to have sex? (I know that there is never a 100% chance you won't get pregnant, but I know my chances on the pill are really high.)
If I need a condom as well, is there anywhere I can get for example a single condom - I don't want to buy a box, it would be a waste of money (this is the only opportunity I have to have sex in AGES) and also I can't risk my parents finding it (they think I am on the pill for hormonal reasons.) Or should I ask my bf to bring one, or is that inappropriate?
Yeah, so basically thanks. :) x (link)
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tell him to bring one .. thats not inappropriate .. boys in my opinion should alwyas bring the condom .. and he shouldnt mind if hes into safe sex
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