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im an 18 guy that has grown up with the most profound respect for women that a man could ever have. i see myself as part of a dying breed of men with chivalry. the only people that i have ever hated are those who treat women like crap. for this, most women find me to be very pleasant to be around. this has led to a lack of relationships in my life, because i dont think i could live with breaking a girls heart. so i started going out with my very first girlfriend a month and a half before i turned 18, and had my first kiss a month before. im still with her and i love her more than anything in the world.
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Age: 18
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well i think im really in love and at the movies this guy that i'm gong out with touched my boobS and i think it was by acident. but than he did it again but he sqizzed them and .. i liked it . than he touched my pussy... and when i say this i mean he went into my pants and fingerd me during a movie than we started making out. He soon took me out of the movie and we had sex. i'm 13!
i'm a A/B student i have lots of freinds and i'm a good girl. (When this happined 3 weeks ago, i hadn't even had my 1st kiss yett... so that made it ever weirdr)
wut should i do? (link)
speaking as a guy whos first relationship went fast (first kiss to first oral in a month and a half, but no sex still) i know there is a difference between fast because of what youve heard about relationships, and fast because of what you feel about the relationship. everyone is going to tell you that they think you are too young and that is way too fast-- i am too, you are way too young and taht is way too fast-- but in the end you have some things to ask yourself to decide how you feel.

did he do it without you wanting him to?
did you feel that it went too fast without taking society's standards into account?
and most importantly, do you love him?

personally i think he is probibly the wrong kind of guy. but in the end, its your opinion.


Well, my boyfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time on Tuesday.

I was just wondering if I should, like, shave you-know-where. I've tried shaving that hair before, but it didn't really go over so well... It was still stubbly and I couldn't get rid of that, and it was really just wierd.

I was wondering if the hair would gross him out or something... Would it? (link)
ok, guys opinion. i think its sexy, dont shave. but if he hasnt even had his hand down there, you shouldnt be having sex
sex is a big step, you should explore eachother first, have fun. manual, oral and intercoarse should be 3 seperate steps on seperate days. (personally i think you can skip oral on him if you dont want to do that, but he should do it on you) preferable several times on each step before moving on to the next one.
after he has felt you out a bit, be open and ask him if he wants the hair gone.


i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused (link)
it looks like me and Evilenterprisesinc are your only 2 guy supporters so far, in all 33 entries. thats probibly the main problem. men are becoming pigs at younger and younger ages. guys suck, thats why most of my friends are girls. it also appears im your oldest virgin here. im 18 and dont plan on having sex until im married. i have a girlfriend and we fool around, but neither one of us wants to have sex.
one other point is that the standard has gone down. my girlfriend is 16 and her parents told us no sex until she is 18. they arnt shooting for "until you are married" anymore, so younger and younger ages are not so far off of the parents accepted age.

the only young people mature enough to have sex are the ones taht realize that they are not mature enough to have sex.

and to answer KinkyBunnyGiggle. not all guys think with their penises. the problem is, if you dont think with your penis, you look gay, so we are hard to pick out from the gay croud.




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