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i'm from hongkong;
male 28 yrs.
after two years of good merried life my wife told me that she slept with boyfriend during college days and was not virgin when got merried ,
however i was virgin before the wedding, i feel cheated ,and do not feel to love my wife any more ,please help? (link)
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well dude... what you are feeling is very natural... i felt the same way when my girlfriend told me that she had been with her ex-boyfriend( not sex actually.. just removed the shirt) i felt the same way...
but n the other hand you wud have been really cheated if she had not actually told you that she had been with another guy. look it takes a lot of guts for a girl to confess such things and its even harder after marriage.. she must trust you a lot that she told you about it,
i think you must be feeling that it would have been better if she had gone all her life without telling you that... then u wud have had an internal satisfaction .. but she must be feeling really guilty for not telling you that ... i think she told you all that to improve your relationship and create some trust... not to mess up the whole thing..
and the part part about you being virgin .... i think virginity is not a dignity.. its lack of oppertunity.... u must know inside that if you had had a real good chance to have sex with some super model kind of girl before marriage then you would have gone for it without thinking twice... so same is with girls.... 98% of boys do have sex before marriage and the percentage of girl's is lesser but not equivalent to zero...
consider it as a mistake of adoloscence.... you got a very loving wife...
stay happy
bye.......
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I have a friend that ive known for several years. She lives a very long distance away from me and theres nothing i can do physcially for her. Her father makes her have sex with him on a nightly basis. Is there any way i can help her get help. Shes afraid of going against him, because he is paying for her college and everything. I love her to death. What can i do? (link)
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hey y dont you do one thing.... become efficient enough that u can take her father's place and pay for urr gf's colleges if she is really interested in studing high.... but the main thing is get her away from the person whom she calls as ger father... but in actual he aint no father for her... do it as soon as possible and you will end up in saving 2 lives maybe 3 if u stopp her from geettin pregnent from her father...
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