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Hi. I'm beankitty. Don't be afraid to ask me a question. I won't bite or claw, unless you deserve it of course.
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I'm 13/m in jr high and I was wondering, how old is an appropriate age for sex? I've heard of people my age that have had sex, but I don't think 13 is an appropriate age, so..... how old should you be to have sex? (link)
www.ageofconsent.com


i need some advice here... i'm kinda freaking out.

graphic, sorry.

anyways, so im on the ortho evra patch and i'v been on it for a while know and well last month i accedentally forgot to change it and went 2 days with an old one on and my period was like 5 days early and my period was like 10-11 days, hell i know, trust me. and well it was like done after about 6 (normal for me) but the yucki brown-end-of-the-period stuff went on forever. then finally it just stopped and i was like okay sweet. im on patch #2 for this month and i changed it on monday, and since like sunday night or monday morning i started getting that yucki brown stuff again and i dont know why and its really kind of scaring me. I had sex with my b/f on that friday, we dont use condoms because im on birth control and well.. to be honest i do NOT want to be effing pregnant. idk why i would be tho? you don't spot or bleed if your pregnant do you? please help.. i dont want to go to the doctor if its something stupid like my period wasnt done coming out or something haha. write back asap!! i rate high. (link)
This hasn't happened to me, but honestly, for something like this you shouldn't be sitting around asking us - you need to see your gynecologist and have a gynecological exam. Not just explain the problem.. but have the doctor look at that. And while you're there, you can have them take a preg test for you and that lovely pap smear is just oodles and oodles of fun.


Ok this could be long! I am in 8th grade and last year there was a kid in my class. EvEryone made fun of him and he was bipolar and had some mental problems. Well, yesterday 11/3. He attempted suicude for the second time. He jumped from the bak of a moving school bus and he is now in acoma. He broke his arm and probably his bak and neck too. He isn't dead though. ThEre was BLooD everywhere. The first time he tried to stab himself with scissors. I feel really bad because I was one to make fun of him. How can i make myself not feel so bad? ALl my freinds say im different since but im really scared for the kid. He seems like he could be nice. Plese help will rate. _-HeArtbreaker-__ (link)
The answer is obvious. Ask him out on a date. Tell him he's your long lost lover and that you two are meant to be. This will definitely do the trick.




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