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Hey Im 14 and both me n my friend Cut ...i started and then she started after me n me n her are best friends..i knwo she does it for atension cuz she doesnt cut deap...but i guess i kinda cut deap..i dont do it often but still ppl found out n they think diferently about me...and alot of my friends i cant hang out with anymore...and then my friend who cuts with me is like always depresed and has weird mood swings i try helping her but it doesnt seem to work ...i dont want to loose our friendship cuz she means the world to me but yea i dono..pppl are starting to get to her...they call her suicidle cuz she buts weird away messages up and stuf...but yea i need to know wat i can do to help her cuz i tried talking n she already goes to theropy but i need to help her bcuz i cant handle her crying anymore....help please (link)
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okay, well i never really was in a situation like this before but people in my school were. so what i think is wether you knew or didnt know she would follow you, you shouldnt have satrted it. theres nothing that bad that you cant fix. you don't have to hurt yourself. my cousins friend is in foster care for it and had to go to a certain hospital for cutting.she lost many privlidges and friends. and cutting turned into even more suicidal attempts. so personally, i think you should stop. and as for your friend, you need to sit with her and explain that theres other things she can do besides hurting herself. tell her that there are too many people who care for her and if she ended up commiting suicide, even people who didnt know her too well would be affected. thats like a girl in my school named amanda, she hung herself over a boy and because of her father.. even poeple who didnt know her were deeply affected. if shes your age too, then you need to tell her that she has her whole life ahead of her and to think of the positive things.. not everything is bad, and if it is it will soon get better. she needs to realize that even though she doesnt cut deep, it could keep affecting her. i know she doesnt think anythings wrong with it now but one day it might be too late. im sure she doesnt wanna cut. and im sure yeah, maybe she might do it for attention but one day she mihgt slip and cut a little too deep. im not sure if i helped you out or not but cutting is a serious issue. both you and her need to stop before it turns into something bigger. write me back with what happens. =) (rate me please)
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Hi I'm 14, and I'm a girl. something has been bothering me for the past month or so and I was wondering if maybe you could help me? What is the difference between a bj and head? Everyone makes it sound like its the same thing but is it really? I'm going into highschool and I dont want to look stupid if that were to ever happen to me, like being asked to give someone head or a blow job or something. Are they the same thing? uhh I'm so confused but I'm scared to ask my friends about it. I dont want them to think that I'm crazy or something!! HELP PLEASE!!! (link)
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bj and head are the same exact thing! bj means blowjob and thats head.. there is no difference - so bj and head are the same thing, no difference - its ok u can ask me nething, i dont think ur crazy or make fun of you - rate plz =))
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im 14 and still a virgin. but ive done amost every thing but haveing sex. i go for older guys and im going into high school so im afraid that ill probly have sex soon that dosnt scare me wut dose is the thought of i might get pregneat. like my sister did.so i was thinking bout birth control
but i dont want my mom to know cuz then she will think i already did have sex or am about to soon (link)
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Talk to your sister - and have her get everything for birth control.. ur mom doesnt have to no =) or have some1 else that ur close with to help you get the birth controll stuff - hope i helped alil rate me
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I'm a virgin, 15 yrs old & totally in love with my boyfriend. We're both ready to have sex & the only issue I have on it is do you guys like hair 'down there'? I know some guys dont mind or & some guys really do. What do guys my age like? I dont want him to be disgusted when were about to have sex cause of my hair! He's not a virgin. (link)
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yeah from what i no.. guys ur age dont like hair down there - some do get disgusted
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Ok...I'm a lesbian and I have had a girlfriend for a year now and we're so tired of just doing the same thing all the time(sexually). I've heard that girls can have sex together. I was wondering if you knew anything about that and you could tell me so my girlfriend and I can have more fun together. Thanks! (link)
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yeah.. girls can have sex together from what i heard -> just attach a dildo and jus fuck.. i guess - im not a lesbian so i dont relle no but thats what i heard you can do.. hope i helped alil - rate me plz =))
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this isnt really a sex question but its the closest catagory anyway ... my boyfriend is not asking me to give him head but i know that he would love it if i did it and its not that im scared to do it i just dont know wut im supposed to be doing or how i approach doing it ... please help me (link)
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giving head isnt all that hard i guess.. lol.. well you just suck and like move your tounge around, some ways to move your tongue around is spell ur name, his name or watever - its not hard to do- its like sucken a icepop lol.. you can try sucken on a ice pop so u get how to do it.. but whenever the time is perfect and u guys are like fooling around just unzip his pants and do it.. maybe hes not asking you bcuz he doesnt wanna seem like hes using you or forcing you to do that.. but most boyfriends or jus boys would ask to get head so just whenever the time is perfect - go for it! =] hope i helped.. rate me plz
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hi i`m a 16 year old female ( they told me to say all that stuff @ the bottom )and i think im addicted to sex, i need to have it like @ least 4-5 times a week.. im not sure if u know anything about this but how could i stop being so obbssed with it? (link)
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hey um im not sure about this one.. but one way i guess is to masturebate.. and hang around with girl friends instead of guy friends most of the time and u wont think about sex all the time when ur with guys.. im sry if i didnt help
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