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Q: 21/f

The guy I am dating and I have already had a conversation about what we liked in bed. We already discussed what we like most, what we can do to make things better, etc. But there is one thing that made me feel a bit awkward. He sometimes looks into my eyes during intercourse. I don't know why it makes me feel uncomfortable, maybe I'm just not used to it? I hear from a lot of people that guys don't usually do that and I have not ran into anybody who actually did that until now.

Is it normal to feel uncomfortable? Is there a way where I can get over the discomfort?

Looking someone directly in the eyes during Sex can be a very intimate experience and that's maybe what's making you feel uncomfortable.
I wouldn't say that guys don't usually do that. In fact I know from own experiences that they do.
It's OK for you to not want to stare at each other during sex. I know people who prefer to close their eyes or just not look at each other directly. Think about what exactly makes you feel uncomfortable. Is it that he's awkwardly staring at you? Or maybe it's that no guy has ever done that before and your not sure what it means? If it doesn't turn you off and you're just not used to this kind of intimacy, you shouldn't let it bother you. In fact you should enjoy it. He obviously enjoys looking at you! So take it as a compliment. He probably likes seeing the expressions on your face when your having Sex, so try to relax and show him how much fun your having.
Good luck !