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Q: ok im 13/f and i dont know if im bi or not cuz like sometime si catch myself wanting to "do" things with girls and like i think gurls bodies are cute or "hot" and when i was 12 a girl hit on me went to kiss me and i DIDNT back away...please i dont know if im a lesbien or if girls are just like this please help me i rate REALLY high..thanks so much!
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well, you probably are, but dont be scared or anything. you might just be going through a stage in life where you get attracted to people you normally wouldnt. it's nothing to worry abut. if you'd like to talk more, my sn on AIM is PrettyInPinkkx17
Hope I helped!!!
Kate
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Q: Ok. I'm 14 and I resently had sex with a guy I had never met before. He was around 21. I have rented a book over being pregnant and I have all the symptoms. I took the pregnancy test and sure enough I am. Well anyways I don't know who he is and i'm really scared. I don't know how to tell my parents and I want him to be there when I tell them! Well if you can help me or give me ideas to tell them and find him...Please HELP!!!
I rate 5's on every one
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Wow. This is the most serious question I have ever answered. I don;t really know how to answer it but I'll give it a try.
How did you meet the guy you had sex with? Was it through a friend? Did you meet at a party? HOPEFULLY you know the name of the guy. Maybe ask some of you're friends who met him (if any did) if they know his full name so that you can take him to court. If you can get a DNA test to prove the baby is his, the state might make him pay child support so that you don't have to support this child on your own.
GO TO A DOCTOR! Make SURE that the pregnancy test was 100% accurate because some of those home testing kits can come out wrong.
Tell your parents!!! They are PROBIBALLY going to be mad at you. Not saying they will, but I know that if I told my parents, they would definately be mad. Tell them what is going on and make sure you tell them when they are not doing anything. Look them straight in the eyes and just tell them. They like it when you are honest and just tell them straight without stalling.
Think about wether you are going to be able to take care of your child once you have it. Having a child at 14 is a HUGE responsibility. Will you be able to provide it with all of the necesities? Food? Water? Clothes? Shelter? If not, you might want to give your child up for adoption or, if worse comes to worse, have an abortion. Are you working? If not, I recommend getting a job to provide the money. Maybe your parents can help.
I hope I helped. Good Luck!!!
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Lockport, Illinois Age: 13 AIM: Member Since: October 24, 2005 Answers: 11 Last Update: December 10, 2005 Visitors: 1913
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