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is there ANY CHANCE of getting pregnant if you give head? like anyy chance at all? because i know its stupid, but im just worried.

If there is no contact between male ejaculation (sperm) and your vaginal opening or interior of your vagina, than no, there is no chance of getting pregnant.

But that being said, if you have performed oral sex on someone, after he ejaculates, if you have it on your hands or his...DO NOT touch yourself or allow him to, until your hands have been washed.

Getting ejaculate inside of your mouth, or swallowing it, will not get you pregnant.

If you have concerns about getting pregnant and the facts of how it may or may not occur than you may not be ready to have sex or sexual contact as of yet, and need to speak with someone, like a family Dr., to get the facts. it is always better to be fully informed with all the facts, before doing anything.

Better safe, than sorry.

~Mysti~

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My boyfriend said that on the first date he wanted to have sex with me but I don't think I'm ready to. I told him I wanted to wait and he said okay we'll wait but now everytime I talk to him he still brings up the subject of "doing it" on the first date. What do I say to him to tell him that I don't want to go that far on the first date?

Hello...
The first indication that something isn't right is the fact that he is pressuring you. Once you said you wanted to wait, he should have told you he respected that choice, and dropped the subject. Don't allow someone else to make up your mind for you. You obviously know it's not right for you, that you are not ready to take that step. And he shoudl be willing to accept and respect that fact if he cares for you at all. Pressuring someone to have sex is a selfish and uncaring thing to do. If he can't wait, then maybe you don't need to wait around for him to understand you, and move on to someone who will respect your wishes far more than he does.

~Mysti~

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