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This is a bit embarassing im 16 and i have a small penis and recently i went to have sex with my gf for the first time my penis went soft and i
could'nt get it up does this happen often?
im worried that it will happen again and that i maybe to small is there anything i can do about this? (link)
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Well since your only 16 I can possibly understand your issue. Usually a guy can not stay hard very long when they are new to this experince. If you came to early dont worry.This is called Erectile Disfunction. That happens to many young men such as yourself. If you want to see if there is anything you can do about it maybe you can go see your doctor. They can often treat this.
About your penis size though. Most women say that as long as your bigger than 5 inches your fine. Most women say if your bigger than 9 its scary. But for your girlfriend it might be different. Just talk to her about it. If she feels that you need to be bigger it is your discion if you want to take something to get bigger or to tell her your happy with how you are. Remember its how you use your penis and not how big it is. As long at it can reach I think your ok.
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What's a hand job? This slutty girl at my school brags about giving dudes hand jobs all the time and I dunno what it is. lol. I'm dumb... (link)
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A hand job is when a girl takes the guys penis into on or both of her hands and begins to move them really fast up and down his penis.
Its the same way a guy masterbates with himself except the girl does it for him. This can be called a hand job, jerking off, or jacking off. Thats all the names I know of.
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Just curious, what counts more, width or lenghth. (link)
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Personally to me its how you use it that counts most. You can be really nice in length and width but if you suck at it you suck. It doesn't matter.
Just learn how to use it right and you'll be fine.
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what is an orgasm? (link)
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An orgasm is when I male or female cums, or for women its lubricate. Basically an Orgasm is the best feeling you get after you tence up from seual pleasure. After you tence up then you relax and thats the orgasm.
Its better than how I explain it ^^;
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im nearly 17 and my penis is about 6.5 to 7 inches long is that about average? im a little
worried what my girlfriend will think. (link)
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Your worried that a 6.5-7inch penis is not average? Wow. I do beleive the average for a penis is about 5 to 6 inches roughly. So I think your fine for size.
As for your girlfriend she should not only love you for what your are inside but she shouldn't have to worry how big or small your are. If she wants you to be some scary size like 9 inches maybe you should think it over about being with her. That seems very greedy.
Personally I wouldn't want anything bigger than 8 inches. So your fine in my terms.
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im almost 17 and my boyfriend been together for about 10 months and the last couple of months i started giving him a hand job and it takes a few minutes for him to cum is that normal?
And recently we started having sex and the 3 times we tried his penis would go soft after a few minutes and he's always been a bit self conscious about his penis size and im not sure what to do i don't want to make him feel bad any suggestions on what we can do? it's both our first time. (link)
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Worried that your boyfriend is cumming too fast? Dont worry thats normal for guys that are either new to sex or with a new girl. Sounds like he's just very excited to be doing this with you.
Mostly guys dont take very long to have an orgam like it takes a woman. For instance, a normal man can usualy hold their orgsim for about 30minutes. But that is usually after they've had sex for a while. But it also depends on the male himself. Maybe your boyfriend just needs to get used to the pleasure you give him.
I hope this helped you. And maybe if you and your boyfriend wanted you can go to a doctor for more advice. Good luck.
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This is a stupid question. But this guy asked this girl if she had a bush. He said if she did it would be a total turn-off then he said his friend likes it. What is he talking about?
Thanks_ 14 year old. (link)
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A bush on a female means she has pubic hair.
Pubic hair, bush, beaver all mean the same thing. Hair growing around your private parts.
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I did it with my dog last week. He's good at it, but can I get pregnant from doing it with a dog? Could my babies be deformed? Could I get sick from doing this? (link)
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Well I would never think about doing my dog. Of course she's female but still...
Anyways, no you will not get pregnant and so you will not have any deformed babies. Getting sick is a maybe but I think thats only if you give your dog a blowjob.
Maybe you should go to council and see about this. And if you dont thats your choice. Just know that you cant get pregnant with anything other than a male human.
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i'm 14 and i've had sex 15 times with 16 different people(threesome) and 13 of them are members of my family(aunts, uncles, cousins, mom, dad, sister, brother, dog, etc.) and now i might be pregnant and i don't know who the father is(obviously not girls) what if it's like half dog? is that possible? HELP ASAP
thanx
write back asap (link)
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Hmm I do beleive you posted this before and I did answer so I shall answer again. ^_^
First off. Their is no way your child is going to be half dog. Any animal can not mate outside their species. So you cant have one.
Second off, if it is a baby between you and one of your family members there is not a huge chance that your baby will become defective or retarded. Yes there is the slight chance of that but these changes usually only become seen in the child after two or more generations of incest.
And last you MUST go see a doctor as soon as possible. If it is true you made it with your parents then they should be able to take you to the doctor. That is the biggest issue. Just get to a doctor. The faster you do that the better things will get.
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if you kiss a guy and you both have braces will they get stuck together for sure or just maybe? (link)
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Well personally I dont wear braces. But I did have a friend that did wear them. She was making out with her boyfriend and the did get stuck together. So there is a chance you may get stuck.
Just watch out OK?
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i know how gay guys have sex, but how do lesbians do it? (link)
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Lesbians usually use "toys" to have sex with each other. One Example is that they will more than likely use a double dildo. If you know what a dildo is a double dildo is the same thing exept two people can use it at once. Then they insert it into both of their vagina's at the same time and thats how they pleasure themselfs.
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