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pretty soon i know my boyfriend and i are going to have sex. OF COURSE we would use a condom, but i am still overly scared of the chance of getting pregnant if the condom breaks. i am trying to figure out what time of the cycle is the best time to Not get pregnant. i know ovulation is the worst time, but what about before, during, and after my period - which is the best time and which is a risky time? i cant find it on any websites and some people tell me different things... please help, im a spaz

OK first of all if your this nervous about having sex then you really need to wait until you know everything you can about it . The only way not to be nervous is to educate yourself about it .

Secondly , there is no 100% safe time to have sex . Sure the condom is a barrier but it is not 100% and you don't want to take the risk. You should use 2 types of birth control , such as the condom and the pill or the comdom and spermicide. Do not depend on your cycle to come through for you . Depending on finding a window in your cycle is very risky and not accurate because everyones body is different.

Be Smart about it , know your ready to have sex before-hand, and use a condom and b/c or spermicide when it comes to sex don't take a chance its not worth it !

Good luck ! : )

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