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Im Nicole. Im currently 15 [16 after July 3rd]. I've been through alot of life issues. When it comes to Parents; Friends; Guys; Love; Moving; things like that, I know my stuff. Im a really social person, & Im good with words. I write music. I also adore quotes.
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Ohh boy, i just turned 15..had sex for my first time, didnt use a condom, im so stupid and im so scared now :( im stressing out so much and i dont know what to know, i had sex like exactly a week ago now, and i dont know if im bloaded or what but my stomach is starting to get big and ive gained 3 pounds-ive also been noticing im eating A LOT latly :-/ should i go get checked out..or take a pregnancy test? ohh lord help me!!

Its been a week since you've had sex, now is the time to use a pregnacy test - which sometimes arent accurate. If the pregnacy test comes up positive, you should probably go to the doctor. If it comes up negative, wait for your period to come, if you miss your period you should go to the doctor [even if the pregnacy test came up negative]. to find out when your next period should be go here - http://www.seventeen.com/health/period/spc/0,,691475_691476,00.html - If you dont get your period around the time this tells you that you should, you really should go to the doctor to find out whats up and if your pregnant or not.
It would also be wise to tell one of your parents or another trusted adult, i dont recommend it. but its best from them to know that you are sexually active and could become pregnant.
When I first had sex, I told my aunt..she helped me make sure i didnt get pregnant, then when it happened again..she suggested I go on birth control so I wouldnt worry about getting pregnant.
Take Care Darling, be careful ♥

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What is the difference between climaxing and having an orgasm for a guy?

an orgasm is the climax of sexual excitement, usually followed by ejaculation.
basically, its the same thing just a different name. like a nickname.

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