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Hey my name is Vanessa, i am 16 years old and live in ATX. I am the kind of person who loves to listen to peoples problems. I love to help people when the need helping. I am a strong believer in the Lord Jesus Christ. Dont be afraid to ask questions that is what life is about. I am here to help and i will do my best to help you through your problems!!!!

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I think I have depression. I'm crying right now, and I'm not even sure why. I've been thinking about dea and searching on the internet for ways to commit suicide just now. I feel as though my life isn't worth living, I'm getting worse at school and I'm not going to ever get a job or get married because I'm worthless. I've always been shy but instead of acting upset and stuff in front of people I try to act happy so they don't notice that I feel so low, but it hurts, I feel as though they don't care even though they probably have no idea. I can't tell them, my friends are immature and just wouldn't understand. I feel as though everything's my fault, and like I'm the worst person in the world. I keep taking my anger out on my dad, I don't want to but sometimes I really can't help it; he was staring at me today and I just started yelling at him, it's like I've gone mad because I never used to shout at all. I don't ever go out anymore and I find chatting and going out boring and pointless. I can't ever concentrate on things for long; even television and chatting to people. I've got into a sleeping pattern a few months ago where every day, I can't sleep until at least 2:30AM, even on schoolnights, and then I go to bed because I'm so tired when I get home from school, and my parents won't let me have time off school to get into a normal pattern again. I've also been thinking about self-harm, I don't do that yet because I'm not sure how to, but I'm going to find out because I have nothing better to do. PS I've been feeling like this for about 4 months now, and no-one has noticed how I feel :| I'm really sorry this is so long but I need help.

Wow. It is really hard to explain stuff on the computer, i know i am a complete stranger and everything but i would like to talk to you on the phone to better explain myself. This is a big thing to deal with and i have gone through stuff like this before and know what it feels like. The first step to getting help is looking for it. You are on the right path to seeking help.

I would like to talk to you more about this but maybe on the phone depending what state you live in cause long distance does cost a lot or maybe even talk to you on instent messanger.

please email me or something i would love to help you .

~Vanessa~

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im ADDICTED to sex. If I don't have it in less than at least a month, my stomach starts hurting, I become depressed..and everything. I know this sounds so stupid and don't call me a slut please...is this normal? or...what can i do to maybe hold my urge in? Because about every weekend I have sex (but with the same guy I always do it with) I`m also pregnate..and my hormones are going EXTRA crazy..15/f HELP!!!!!!!

OK, well no offense, but yeah that is a problem. Well first of all it is not good to have sex while you are pregnate. You have to think about the baby inside of you. When the baby is born you wont have time to have sex. Once you have a child you wont be able to do anything but take care of that baby. You have to think of what is best for the child. Sex is something that is ment for couples who are married. We all make mistakes and God knows i have made many but he forgives and you can get help either getting the courage up and asking for help with an adult, someone you trust or the best thing to do in my opinion is to pray and pray and ask the lord to help you through all your problems!!!!!

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