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*Jenny_411
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ok i just got fingered for the first time like a few days ago, and i was wondering if a guy fingers you does it hurt less to have sex the first time? also...it didnt hurt when he did it but then i went to the bathroom and it was reddish when i wiped only the slightest bit though. does that mean it will hurt less? and can he "pop my cherry" by fingering?
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hey!
since he fingered you and you bleeded alittle bit that means he popped your cherry, and well honestly when I got fingered my boyfriend he popped my cherry and when we had sex for the first time it didn't hurt when I lost it, so there's a possibilty that it won't hurt. so it won't hurt as much, and u won't bleed when you loose it the first time since he popped you cherry.
I hope I helped
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during your first time
how long usually does it take?
does he put the condom on?
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well let him put on the condom first (for protection) if he doesn't no how to put a condom they show instuctions and since its the first time it usually last about 5-10 min. but sometimes a guy can go longer and stuff
glad to help
Jenny_411
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okay well lately i've been really worried and i need to know if this is something i should be worried about.
me and my boyfriend were fooling around and i gave him a handjob and he fingered me. i don't think he had any cum on his fingers, and he told me he didn't. i don't remember if he touched himself at all turning this.
the only 'side effects' i've had have been lower body cramps and i felt dizzy today. but, i'm also due for my period next week.
i've been looking for the answer to this on the internet, but i can't find a direct answer.
all i know is it's unlikely, but possible.
from what i know, my boyfriend had no cum/precum on his fingers, i just get very paranoid really easily.
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well you can't get preganagt from a person fingering you and if he did have cum in his fingers I think he would wipe it off I don't think he wants to get you preganant.....and the reason why your feeling ill is because your really nervous, I had the same side affects my stomach was killing me,I felt light headed but I wasn't pregnant it was only because I was soo scared and paranoid. so don't worry your not pregnant but if you still feel like you are pregnant take a pregnance test a week later. and you will no your answer.
*Jenny_411
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jenny i mean like what do the girls do WHILE the guys finger them? (link)
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honseltly nothing they just lay there while ur doing that
*Jenny411
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what does the girl fo while the boy fingers her. (link)
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well when your done fingering her let her do something to you like a h/j or a b/j stuff like that but ONLY if she wants too.
*Jenny411
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Me and my boyfriend want to have sex and he definately has more experience than I do but usually he just makes me give him head or handjobs and I don't think I'm good at it cause he makes me go faster and finishes jacking off in front of me and I feel like I don't do a good job at it then I feel bad and uncomfortable for about 30 minutes after it.
I want to do better so its not like disapointing or anything but I'd rather have sex with him and I don't really know how to get him to actually start into it. (link)
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do you really want to have sex? or you just want to because you think it would pleasure you b/f be ready for the right time to have sex. and don't worry I no how you feel it takes practice and practice at first when I gave my b/f a b/j I no I wasn't good at it I kept practicing until I got better tell your b/f when your giving him a b/j ask him wat your doing wrong/right its good when your b/f helps you with certain stuff like that. but if you think ur ready to have sex let him be on the top its better =] trust me =]
*Jenny411
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1. Is dry sex(like with clothes on and just rubbing) like real sex?
2. If my man cums quick in dry sex will that happen when we eventually have sex?
3. How do you make him last longer?
4. Me and my man do things, and we like take turns to i guess..arouse each other, but when its my turn i have no idea what too do, he is kinda kinky, and i just have no idea. other hten like hj or bj, but yeah.. Do you ahve any idea of something diffrent?
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lol
1) yeaa dry sex is like sex (but with clothes on)
2)depends if he is really horny than yeaa he's going to cum but if he isn't that horny there's a slight chance he's not going to cum
3)get a break like at 3 or 4 min. and then go back entertain him ;)
4)if u don't like bj/hj try to do some kinky stuff like lick him around, take a shower with him and rubb on him that works too. stuff like that since you don't like hj/bj
so do that =]
*Jenny411
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i wanna give a guy a blow job, but im scared to ask . i dont wanna look like a slut or something. is it fun? it kinda sounds like it. (link)
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try to make a move on him so he can get the picture that you want to give head to him fuck around and stuff and it doesn't make you look like a slut at all..............I've gave head to my b/f a lot and he enjoys it and honeslty I like doing it cause it gives him pleasure and so do I (in a way) but its not nasty at all ,just make sure he doesn't have a dirty penis you don't want herpies in your mouth lol
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