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i might be pregnant. I date all my periods and times i have sex with my boyfriend on a calender so i know what days happened. On July 31st we had sex wile i was on my 3rd day on my period and he came in side. After that my period did not stop. it lasted on for 15days. I went to the doctor and they gave me a pregnancy test that came back which i knew that. it was too early for one any way. I hadnt even started on my missed on yet. but anyways they gave me some pills that were supposed to "reset" my period and bring it back. i finished the pills on August 26th but it didnt come back. on the 31st i got some spotting that was bright red and on the first i had some clots that were dark brown than nothing after that. Could i be pregnant? i havent had any signs or should i go to the doctor again?

Well when I got pregnant I still had my period and I found out that I was pregnant a few days before my period was even supposed to start. I actually had a miscarriage in the process & I had blood clots...you might've had a miscarriage as well hun. I mean if they didn't know if you were pregnant or not but they still gave you pills to take - well that's not very responsible on their part..they could've killed your baby. Now I'm not trying to scare you or anything...but that's just what it seems like to me, I might be wrong.

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so my boyfriend and i have been together for about 9 months. he knows like all the things to like turn me on and stuff, but the one thing he likes i like need help with. sooo how do i like take charge?
do i like just push him up against a wall and just start grabbing him and what not?
i guess im a little sexually shy? but i realllly want to have that whole aggressive side.
any and all tips, comments, or whatever would be awesome :)

To be more aggressive ok this is what you do.

When you're just getting into it possibly pin him against the wall - whatever you like.

* DO NOT grab his stuff - you might do it too hard because you are TRYING to be aggressive; it's not your nature. *

When you guys are actually doing it get on top! Don't do it slowly just kind of turn him over and get on top, pin his hands down and just take control over the situation. It will come to you, you'll see.

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Does it feel good when someone fingers you? Because my boyfriend wants to, but I'm scared that it wont feel good or it will hurt. What about after if he's fingers are wet? What does he do? I feel like an idiot for asking, but I really wanna know..

yes it does feel good...there are different ways that a guy can do it but no matter what im telling you it feels good. you're too worried about it, if you are so stressed out you wont be able to enjoy it so just chill out a little bit.

on the wet part..his hands most likely will be wet, its no big deal i promise you. He'll wash his hands after and thats it. Its not a big deal. It is to you cuz you're scared and nervous all at the same time...but it will be okay i promise.

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okay well this is pretty disgusting so bare with me. i am 13 and well my "baggage" in the pubic area is kind of "loose". lol i know its weird but whenever i look in the mirror naked just standing up straight, i can see my stuff like hanging there (not hanging really far down or anything.) but i just wanted to know if that's normal. all the girls i see, you can barely see any of their "stuff" when they face me standing straight up, but i can just see a little bit of it when i look at myself. is it normal for it to be a little low?

its really normal dont worry about it

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here's two things i've been told about sex from my friends, and i'm not sure what's true and what's not:

-your vagina makes "farting" noises when having sex.
-there is the possibility of peeing on him.

true or false? =/

thanks!

lmao sorry thats funny
but they're both false wow

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