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My husband always complaings that I don't initiate sex. I am a stay-at-home mom with two highly energetic, small children. I DO exercise and pay attention to my grooming/appearance but honestly, I NEVER FEEL LIKE INITIATING sex. What should I do? (link)
As a mother I can understand where you are coming from. Try and look at if from your husbands point of view as well though. If he is always the one initiating sex with you it's only natural that there will be times where he is going to want to feel wanted, and attractive and he's going to want you to make the first move on him. No matter how good of shape you stay in or how you keep your appearance during the day, the fact of the matter is kids WILL WEAR YOU OUT! One weekend, leave him home with the kids, go out and spend the day in the spa, have YOU TIME get a manicure, pedicure, massage, maybe even get your hair done. you will feel great and look fabulous!! With your new DIVA look you will definitely be feeling sexy and you may just want to go home and seduce your husband ;-)




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