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Q: Ok this might be hard to follow but lets give it a shot. Well right now i am in such a screwed up situation. As far as my friends i dont even know what or who to believe. Ok well me and this girl Kathy have been best of friends for bout 3 years now. And use to me and this boy tj used to be i met him and thats how i met kathy. Well back toward the end of may me and kathy told tj off cause he was lying. Ok so sometime in the begining of july he comes back into the picture wants another chance i was hesistating but kathy wasnt so i gave it a shot. Well turns out my feeling was right i should not have cause i ended up telling him off again for lying and coping off with an attitude. And every since then i haven't seen him or talked to him and dont wont to.And there for a few weeks kathy wasnt either. Well say the 2nd or 3rd week in august TJ and another one of his buddies come back into the picture. Well right off the bat i had a bad feeling bout them both. And turns out kathy goes out with tj's buddy. And every since that week that tj and his buddy came back into the picture Kathy hasnt been acting herself. Not towards me that she has known for 3 years or her real good friend crystal sometimes. And her and crystal are like sisters. I havent been acting myself either but that cause of this plus some is getting me misurably stressed. Anyways my question is do yall know anyway we can get it through Kathy's head that she needs to give Tj the big boot and also some other people and start acting herself again and realize that she is hurting her close ones?
P.S. me and kathy have been so close, We used to talk to each other everyday, I used to go and spend the night at her house every weekend help her and her family out til bout a month and a half ago when she wasnt acting right.
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try an intervention. get a couple of other people and drag her if you have to. well, not litterally. but you should have a bunch of people tell her that she's different. give specific examples. but not everybody stays friends forever...not that im telling you to blow this off, but maybe its time that you two drift apart. i really hope thats not the case though...
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Q: I'm so depressed my girl left me and I didn't really make many friends when I moved here from NC what can I do to cheer up or meet new friends?
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well, for starters you need to realize that you DO NOT need a girlfriend to be happy. if she left you then either you did something wrong or the relationship just wasnt going anywhere. but about making friends, join a club or something. for instance, you could join your local YMCA and play sports, which is a great way to meet new people. or ask if your church, or other religious organization, has a youth group/night.
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i'm a crazy person, but in a good way. i'm always happy and I guess i'm a free spirit. i have an open mind and like trying new things. my friends come second only to my religion. i'm a total nerrrddd...but i love bein one, so it's ok ^^music, theatre, debate, and science olympiad are my life. i enjoy meeting new people and i'm pretty straightfoward. i dont like mind games, so i don't do it to other people. i think out loud alot, which can be a problem...if there's anything else you want to know about me, just IM me. i'm usually on unless i'm researching for one of the nerdy things mentioned above...
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Gender: Female Age: 16 Member Since: October 8, 2005 Answers: 26 Last Update: October 10, 2005 Visitors: 3424
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