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ok so I have these 2 friends....We r really close but just like anyone sometimes i just get tired of being with them.....well first off they had planned to go bowlin....i hadnt heard that we were going for sure all day so another friend of mine called and since i had not heard from them i made other plans....next.....we had planned to go see some free concert and the day of the concert i had softball practice and didnt' really like the guy that was singing...so i didn't go and the whole time they were gone they called me tryin to rub it in that i didnt' go and tryed to make me wish i was there....when all i thought was nothin cause i didn't wanna go.....Then the next day they said something about going to see fireworks...but when they called me I was at my sister's fixin to get in the tannin bed and i wasn't ready.....So that night i went with my sis and her family somewhere else ot see fireworks... Was I wrong for not doing that stuff with them? Should I feel bad about it? cause as fo rite now i really dont' feel bad about it cause i did what i wanted ot do and went where i wanted to go .....
please help!!!!!!!!!!

as long as you were happy you're fine! :) because it doesnt matter if they want to do something not like you shouldnt take sacrifices for your friends but they dont seem like the type of friends that would sacrifice for you. so you did what you should've done!

=) samantha

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Ok, there is this one guy that I know likes me. But I don't like him. We are really really good friends. How can I tell him I don't like him without hurting him?

well.. this is a tough spot, i know because i've been here before. Well if you and this guy are really really good friends then you probably know him pretty well so, set up a day to hang out.. do a lotta stuff he likes with him maybe watch his favorite movie with him then at the end of the day just tell him how happy you are to be FRIENDS with him and if he doesnt get the point he'll still like you but at least you told him so he cant blame you later for never telling you and he wont hurt him. but if he bluntly asks you if you like him break it to him kindly and tell him you hope your friendship doesnt go haywire over this one instance .. hope i've helped.. IM me after you try my advice if you do! AIM - brunette x5o .. im usually always on!

=) samantha

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