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What do i do when me & my bff have a crush on the same guy?

Fight!!! lmfao no j/k. see which guy likes you.if he likes any one of you at all. if he doesnt then just crush on him together k?


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Hi, i have a friend who has bad b/o. I'm not that kind of person who can say "Would u mind putting on some deoderent?" I could never do that to a friend. I was wondering if anyone could tell me how to tell her without hurting her feelings. Please my b-day party is coming up and shes coming, i dont want to afend my other friends. Please, I really need some help.

oo i hav a good idea. At the party like make up party favors. but for hers, put some body spray in it. and she'll be like OOOOO! and spray it on her.. or when she's not looking spray sum perfume on her..LOL yeah if that doesn't work, talk to her mom about it or somethin.. k? hope i helped..


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my friend has a boyfriend and they have been going out for like 10 or 11 months and last night she cheated on him for her friend..she likes her friend a lot and he was just kissing her to well..kiss her, he doesnt like her. her boyfriend happens to be my friend too and he loves her and everything..what should she do..i think she might have told him by now..

I think if she didn't tell him, i think she shuld keep it a secret and go on riki lake, on one of those , MY WOMAN IS CHEATIN ON ME specials..lmao. Well Anyway, she should tell him it was an honest mistake and that she was caught up in the moment. She wasn't thinking and was very guliable. she should make up some story about her family and her bein sad or something lmfao. Well yeah, hope i helped..

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I'm in 8th grade. This is my last year at m school, and I have become like really close with these two girls. Like and we are going to differnt highschools, but they are the only people that I can actually tell them stuff. I'm like really scared because i need one of them to talk to at school..to help me with my problems and stuff! how am i going to survive with out them?! i am totally scared! mauhh

kmul

You can keep touch with other ways! There is always e-mail, and you can see them on weekends and stuff. Don't loose hope if its just for school. You'll find some more close friends in high school im sure! Don't be scared, new friends are just as good as old ones. If worse comes to worse, you could just choice into one of their high schools. But, Everything will work out fine. Trust me, I had the same problem when i moved :( Good luck!

_Kadi_

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ok well here it does one of my friend complains 24/7. thats all she does is complains. and she cant just be my friend she has to be my Best friend. i cant stand her complaining tho. i mean yea sometimes i complain too but sometimes i just want to say to her "thats life, deal with it" but i dont want her to get mad at me. what should i do?

Well, Miss Non-Complainer, lol. When she complains, tell her a positive thing about what she is complaining about! And, maybe she'll say, yeah your right and she wont be complaining ^_^ Hope im helpful!

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Ok so first of all my best friend (we both just started high school a couple months ago) is gorgeous and always gets all the guys... even if they're just friends... she's closer friends with all my guy friends than i am so that really gets on my nerves. It's not my friend that bothers me though because why would i be mad at her for having close friendships, but it's the guys that bother me because they act like i don't even exist. I've kind of gotten used to that, but there is this one thing that's really bugging me. There's this guy who i became friends with at the beginning of the year who was really sweet to me and he was always talking to me and hanging out with me. My best friend didn't know him for a little while, but then she met him and now he's much better friends with her than he is with me. He's actually really mean to me now; he hurts me for no reason, always says mean things to me, and he's just not acting like a good friend. He's one of those people who you want so bad to think they're not worth it anyway towards, but you still want to be really good friends with them because they're good people and fun to be around. So anyways, i think he likes my friend because he's always following her around and he spends more time with her than any other girl. I feel like if he were to ask her out, she would say yes. I don't like him or anything, but i would still feel really weird if they were to go out or even have a little thing going on. I guess i just want things to back to normal with him, where he's still a nice friend to me. What should I do?

Wow. Thats tough. Well, i think you should talk to -him- about it. Ask him why he's bein so shitty to you lol. And ask her if he likes her. Then you might feel better even if its still bad :(

_Kadi_

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