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okay, FIRST OF ALL thanks for readin this i really apprichiate it..well my "bestfriend" founf her new boyfriend..and she obsesses about him..and she ditches me for him..and its the most annoying thing ever, i tol d her how i feel, and she was acting sorta like a whore at this one party and she was totally flirting with my ex-boyfriend (crush) that really pissed me off, she knows how i feel about him...and i brought it up that she was acting wierd at the party, and we got into this big fight..were okay now, but whenever her boyfriend or guy friends are online, she doesnt really talk to me, and this is getting out of hand...i know i cant have her all to myself, thats not what im asking...maybe to see her once every month is all...i never see her anymore, and she tends to ditch me whenever she gets a boyfriend, i dont like him much, and i dont like her guy friends much either...i dont know what to do, she use to be really cool, but now...im not so sure of that, im depressed i feel like i have nobody special in my life now...i dont know what to do so please e-mail me, or somthing...thanks (link)
hey sweetie...i think that u need 2 talk 2 her about this.... get her alone and tell her everything that u juss told me, tell her that u dont like how she ditches you for him and that if she was your real friend she would treat u like that, and how she doesn't really talk 2 u wen he's online, tell her that u kno u cant have her all 2 yourself and that thats not wut your asking for,say that u juss want your old bestfriend bak bc u feel like u have lost her and that she is very important 2 you and u dont want 2 lose her as a friend. if u cant get her alone 2 tell her,write her a note or an email or call her do ne thing u have 2 do 2 get through 2 her.. b very nice wen u approach her about this and keep in mind that she wants 2 spend time with her new bf.. good luck babe i hope i helped you!
-xOx-kelsey


i have this friend her name is mallory and shes one of my best friends but when i told her that shes not my only best friend, i have others, she got mad and she started being really mean to them she said to one that "she looks like a boy" and that friend already has a b/f. and mallory is the one looking like a boy and she called anoter one of my friends a slut. and when mallory calls us a name like a bicth we dont get mad but if we call her a loser she would start to cry and tell the teachers or parents on us and she wold tell them that we called her the bicth. and every one is thinking of giving her the cold sholder next year or in 2 weeks b/c thats when school starts. so what should i do? oh yeah sorry 'bout the swears. (link)
lol its ok....i think u should get all of your friends 2gether and talk 2 her.. tell her wut u told me, that shes not your only best friend and that you can have more than one, tell her that u dont appreciate her being mean 2 your other friends and that she doesnt need 2 take things so offensevly, tell her that u still want 2 b her friend but you dont like the way she is acting,and tell her this the nicest way possible and dont b rude 2 her.. good luck hun! -xoxo-kelsey


I like my friend named saul, and we known each other for about 2 months. my friend (amanda) told me he was going to ask me out but he "forgot" (that was about 2 months ago) and we keep in touch but dont go to the same school. on the phone he told me he lylas, but i dont noe if he has feelings for me. (link)
i think u should tell him how u feel and see if he has the same feelings for you so that your not wasting your time and u can move on if he doesn't
good luck -xox- kelsey


See the problem with me telling him how I feel is bad. Because this is really the first girl that has ever liked him too. He's not the normal b/f kind of guy. But her parents know and they let her and him sleep together, and his mom knows to but she thinks she's really 14 not 12. And I feel like I'll be being a bitch if I tell him that I think he needs to leave her. And I feel like I'll be being a bad friend too. I just dont know what to do!?! (link)
well mayb u should juss let them b and things will work out on their own, u could tell them how u feel, tell him that he will find somebody else that will like him and that he shouldn't b goin out with her b.c of the age difference, but if their parents kno and r okay with it then u should juss leave it alone and if things dont work out or sumthin bad does happen then u can juss say that u warned them and that u tried yer best but they wouldn't listen good luck -xoxo-kel



I have a friend and he's a guy. Well, he's going to be 18 this month and he just started to go out with this girl that he told me was 14. But my ex. and his best friend told me that she was really 12! And I know that it's wrong and so does he but how do I tell he that i dont agree with it and I think he needs to brake up with her. Because as he tells me I'm his Best Chick Friend! Help me PLEASE!!

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well tell him that u need 2 talk 2 him about sumthin and then juss tell him that thats illegal and u dont want ne thing bad 2 happen with that.. like him get charged with rape or ne thing and her parents probable wouldn't approve of that so if you can talk 2 her too.. tell her the same thing that its illegal and that since he is older he will b wanting 2 do older more mature things that mayb shes not ready for yet and he will b going off 2 college soon and he will b meeting new ppl and everything... well i hope i helped let me kno wut happens -xox- kelsey




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