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Hey. I'm friend with a lot of guys in skool. they hate ehrn im not around. all they do is talk to me and stuff. i dont like any of them but, im a girl. should i hang out wit otha girl or stay friends wit the boyz?

go with your "gut feeling" if you have more fun w/ ur guyz then ur girls then hang w/ the guyz...whos ta say u cant have girl AND guy friends...i kno i got some pretty good friends who r guyz but also some realli awesum friends who r girls...i wouldn't trade ANY of them in ... so just go w/ wut u think is best...if ya like ta hang w/ guyz better do it...n if the girls u got r really ur friends theyll respect that you don't wanna hang out w/ them as much...after a while tho if u don't hang w/ them once in a while they might not be 2 comfortable w/ the idea that u say their ur friends and yet u never do stuff w/ them so go w/ ur gut feeling but mix it up a bit...hang w/ the guyz one week and the girls the next weekend...guyz then next week and then girls on the weekend...just don't lose ur truest friends!!

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me and my frend meaghan hav been in a fight and i rele think thats she hates me and she was yellin at me online and took me out of her shoutoutz i rele hope that we can cum back together What do i do?
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wow ive been there done that...ive been down ur and ur friends road...ive been the one taken out of shootouts or w/e and ive TAKEN ppl out of shootouts...its just some silly little internet thing so don't let that bother u...one of my best and truest friends insn't in my shootouts n i'm not in hers but all our other friends are...if ya feel this way juss IM her one day (not face ta face...its 2 difficult) or call her one day and ask whats goin on? if shes a real friend shell tell u, appologize 2 u, AND wanna be ur friend and she'll say somethin like we never WEREN'T freinds we will and always have been friends or sumthin like that ... and even if she doesnt' it doesn't mean taht u guyz can't work things out...if ur ment 2 be friends u will be .... n u don't have ta make urselfs be freinds.......hope that helped!!

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I have a problem with opening up to my friends. I've been a big flirt for like my whole life! I even won biggest flirt at my middle school. But I havent really DONE anything if you know what I mean. Like I kissed but didnt make out. ANYWAYS i have two best friends and they havent done that either! But I have a secret. I actually have gone farther than that a couple times... I'm not comfortable telling them about it because they asked me what happened when "john" came over to my house and I told them NOTHING! so then they would know I lied to them. I dont want any answers saying something like "be honest cuz thats the best" blah blah blah!
I just dont know what to do....

If ya don't feel comfortable tellin em, just say that, just say that u don't wanna talk about it, yea they might know u got farther but HEY!! u didn't say u did so they don't know that for sure!!

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