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Gender: Female
Location: NH
Age: 15
Member Since: September 8, 2005
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Here's the deal;; My parents have always kept a good eye on me, and I love them, but they've always held on a little too tight. I mean, my parents still dont usually let me go to the movies at night with my friends!
My friend Sarah has a boyfriend that her mother used to not let her see because ...they moved too fast and she knew it. Her mom even got a restraining order against him for the next four years! But out of nowwhere this year, her mom decided that they could see each other again.
Since I've always been held on a tight leash, and my mom knew about Sarah and her boyfriend, I can't go anywhere where he is. Now since it's the school year, my friends all go to the movies everry friday night.......and Sarah brings her boyfriend. I've always been honost with my mom, but when I asked her if I could go to the movies, I mentioned that Sarah's boyfriend was going, and she said N-O. But it's not even about this, my parents have always normally said I couldn't do stuff with my friends at night, since they feel it's "unsafe". I want to be honost with my parents, but It'd be so much easier if I left little details of my plans out. I don't want to though, but I'm so sick of getting left behind while all of my friends go out and have fun on friday nights and I'm stuck at home, I mean, I'm 14! That's a reasonable age, I feel.
What can I do to let my parents a.) loosen up b.)let me be around sarah when her b/f is around
Please help me! It's starting to drive me c-r-a-z-y!
If anyone is actually willing to listen to the whole story (yes, it's longer than this) please leave your screen name. It's really upsetting me now because I'm worried they NEVER let me do ANYTHING :[.
x0 Ally. (link)
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hey
im sorry about this...
that sucks...
i guess you can try 2 get an understanding from ur parents about why you can't hang out w/ friends and sarah...if you dont do much around the house for helping do so and try not 2 have arguments w/ your parents and make sure you do good in school...im not sure whhat you could really do but i think the best thing is to talk 2 your mom and tell her how you feel about not being able 2 hang out and telling her you want her 2 trust you and stuff...i hope that works...
good luckk :)
im 15--female here 2 talk if u ever need me
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